It takes a while to get over someone that you were really into. It took me a year. I remember listening to songs and somehow every song reminded me of my relationship. It hurt like someone got a hold of my heart and was twisting it clock-wise out of my chest. It was horrible. Don't do what I did. I started sleeping around a lot. It was fun and it took my mind out for a little while. It also made me feel attractive, but then at the end of the day when I was all by myself in my room it all came back again. I also started to drink a lot. None of those helped, if anything it made things worse. At the end I found out that doing things with my family and putting everything that reminded me of my lost love in a box and never seeing those things again helped quite a bit. However, it did took me a whole year. After a year is pretty much over, but you would still remember that person that you longed for once. Also, let him go and don't cyber-stalk him on Facebook and twitter and stuff. He is gone, for good or for bad. Get over it.
Then he is not the right person, and obsession can be bad. Let him go, and put goals to yourself, raise your self esteem and make better priorities like studying, excercize, and not really worrying about such a relationship. Eventually someone will come along and youll know it will be the moment to be with someone. Make a goal, achieve it, and continue.
I'm in the same situation!! He asked me out and I said yes, then the next day I broke up with him cause I wasn't ready for a boyfriend and I regret it soo much!! I should have taken a risk I should've...ahh:/
yah i always say when an opportunity presents itself to you, take it. that's good advice. i took it and it was great. she left forever. its ok, we just have to take different opportunities. make a new tomorrow
I know how you feel I like someone and im not sure if he likes me back I can always feel him looking at me but I dont have the guts to talk to him and one I decided to let go but no matter how hard I tried I couldnt hes always in my mind and everytime I see him I freeze up I dont know what to do :(