should I break up with him ?
I've been dating a guy for about 9 months , the perfect guy, the first 5 months I loved him but I wasn't in love with him . now I am, & it sucks , I felt like with him I could be myself completely .. I started gaining weigh thinking well he loves me for me so I guess he won't care , especially since he's chubby himself . at first he noticed, never said anything . but now he's telling me that I'm losing my " amazing body " I was like I'm going to start a diet & he's like okay good I don't want you to get fat ( I've gained about 7 pounds ) I'm not fat but my face is getting fat and so is my waist ( I have a tiny waist) and now he's always talking about other girls body. & he's ex is fat & I was like " I'm not fat , look at your ex why are you saying I'm getting fat when she is " & he's like you're not fat but you're starting , I've never dated a fat girl , when I was dating her she had a tight lil body now she's a hippo . I don't like hearing that, I hate it when he calls people names. I don't know what to do . he said he wants to marry me , but what's gonna happen when I'm old and fat? is he gonna just leave me for a 20 year old ? sorry this is so long . I needed to get it out.