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Why am I so sick of life?

I'm a sophomore in high school, and I hate absolutely everything. If you look at my other question, you'll see that I've become really depressed about this girl I went out with a few years ago that I now have no chance with. I've tried sports, and I grow tired of them within a few weeks, regardless of how much of a "chance" I give them. I have some friends I guess, but I really really don't like them. I could take the time to type out more stuff I don't like, but I'm just gonna say that I hate everything, which is true. I have no hope for the future, I don't wanna do anything. Every day it gets harder to find the motivation to get out of bed, because there's not a single thing in life I want to do. I used to believe in god and go to church, but I don't believe in that crap anymore. All I really do is go to school and do homework, which I absolutely hate. I'm about to stop trying, because it stresses me out wayy too much. I make decent grades, but my parents don't even care, and I don't see a point to waste my time preparing for some dead end job that I'm going to hate. Seriously, life has been going sharply downhill since 6th grade, and I can tell it's not gonna get any better. Any thoughts?

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Remember that life ends right before our eyes. Make the best of it as much as you can, or else with your last dying breath, you're going to regret it.

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i think you might be suffering from depression. its actually pretty common for depression to develop among teens and young adults.

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I agree with this thought.
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Because your going through your "emo" stage.

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Been like this for more than 4 years.
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You are emo
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Lol
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Wow ur nice
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Just because ur depressed, it doesnt mean ur emo
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Force some adrenaline to flow through you. It will make you feel better and stronger.

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Do you have any specific ways how?
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Do anything that pumps adrenaline through your body! Talk to super hot girls, take take risks! Try to make each day better than the day before.
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Do something nice for someone else. Find out who needs a helping hand. That always makes me feel better.

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boondox4l

I'm the same way
its the same routine and the people in school which makes me mad and tired of living

all i want to do is have fun
i pull pranks in school and out side as well
i started to screw around more and don't even care about the consequences
i dont do any sports or have many hobbies
i feel like i for no meaning or purpose in life and want a bullet to be my last meal
but i always find a reason to wake up and get out of bed and put on a fake smile

does this help any and do i seem like i have the same feeling

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Play Lacrosse or do something extremely cool like be known at your school for your extreme ping pong skills... go bungee jumping have fun i know nobody says this anymore nut YOLOOOOOOOOOO

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Lacrosse is one of the things I used to enjoy doing, but now it just pisses me off.
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YOLO is the dumbest term ever
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Wait for "Good Luck" to come to you.

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Been waiting for 4 years, I'm starting to get sick of waiting for nothing
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Then... I really don't know...
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You need something to look forward to in life. My definition of a persons god is the thing / being that they live for, that their life is dedicated too. With God I have a way to wake up every morning and still be content. I think that without a god ( my definition of god at least ) you go into depression, now I'm a Christian and that has always worked for me. You could see phsycologist ( my spelling ) or you could try to find a god in my definition, sports is a god for a lot of people, your job, family, money, or any number of things could be your god.If you are a Christian then you have something wrong in your relationship to god.
My dad always said that people nowadays where just fading, losing hope for the future, losing everything that they trusted and believed in, everything they relied on, and that now the world is falling apart because of it.
Try to find something you're good at and just immerse yourself in it - that can work. Or you could try to find a God ( obviously I'd advise Jesus ). And so you know , I wasn't always content like I am.

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I used to believe in god, but I just don't buy into it anymore. Not trying to to damage your faith, because I wish I could still believe in god. Maybe it's just the church I go to, (Southern Baptist), but it makes no sense to me how they believe everyone that isn't Baptist, is going to Hell. (yes, including the Pope, and all Jews) makes no sense to me
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It sounds like you're suffering from some form of depression. What worries me is your statement that it's getting harder and harder to get out of bed. It might not be a bad idea to seek out a trusted friend or adult to talk to about this. I suffer from these types of thoughts myself and from experience can tell you that exercise does help. 15 to 20 minutes of fairly strenuous (gets your heart rate up) exercise three or four times a week has been shown to help. That's what my doctor prescribed for me and it did make me feel better. But don't just take my word for it, PLEASE SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP. You could have a chemical imbalance. Sorry for the long post, but I just wanted to give you some of the advice I got.

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I've tried working out, I just get really nauseous and tired no matter how I work out
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It sounds like you have something physically wrong (like with your glands, etc.) that's making you sick and depressed. If you can, you should get some blood work done at your doctor's. I know it's expensive to go to a doctor (I've had trouble myself), but the quicker you find out what's wrong, the quicker you can start working on a solution. I put off going for years and now I have permenent damage to my thyroid (which can cause depression too BTW). Sorry to sound like one of those people who give advice but no practical way to apply it. Hope you get to feeling better soon.
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You're depressed. All you need is something to live for. I live for the littlest things in life these days. That girl you like? Get over her. She isn't good enough for you and you deserve someone better. You deserve someone that will light up your whole world. That won't happen easy. You'll find her when you find her so that's one thing to keep living for. Keep up the good work with your grades. Even if your parents supposedly don't care. You will have such a bright future ahead of you if you do your best in school and get good grades, you won't get a dead end job. Keep living, and love the life you live because sooner or later, your life will be amazing.

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Get a kitteh! They make everything better! Or just pour some Scotch. XD

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Nice
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Nice
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Indeed
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Indeed nice
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It sounds to me like you are suffering from severe depression. Depression is usually inherited. Please see your doctor. There are some really good anti-depressants these days. You should not have to suffer from this illness. You would be surprised how much better you would feel and your outlook on life would be improved greatly, usually after two weeks of medication.Please see your doctor because I care about you.

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I feel the same way all the time and still do. I dont have any hobbies either and school puts on so much more stress. Just letting u know that ur not alone.

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Most people go through an emo stage and honestly, he is depressed. I didnt want to tell everyone.
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HE IS NOT EMO. Jeez
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I know I'm depressed, but I'd rather be called depressed than emo haha
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Dont listen to avatar. Lol
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WOW and you're only in HS????? I'm going through the same thing, but I'm older......and you said it yourself........you don't like nothing and I'm the same way. Also you feel that this girl left a hole in your hart and it sounds like your parents don't care. Find someone who is willing to listen, give you advice and be there for you. I don't go to church myself, but don't give up on God.......Life always has something stored for you......when you believe and stay positive, you're toooo young to give up. Keep up your good grades and continue your education so you can have your own business and be your own boss.

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i feel the same....</3

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When you hit rock bottom the only thing left is to go up right? Life will get better just work hard in school it will always be today never tommrow

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