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What should I be feeling?

So i've liked this guy for several years now and i'm always striving to impress him. He always flirts with me but he's had 3 girlfriends from the time i liked him, and i've about had it. I knew this other guy and i've known him for a few years and never really fancied him, but he was nice. He's the kind of kid that's just kind of 'there' but he could have almost any girl because he's very very cute. I sit next to him in three classes and after talking to him the more I like him. I just started liking this other guy and i'm not feeling need to impress him as much. Which one should i have feelings for?

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Go for the guy who didn't have 3 girlfriends because that guy is THE ONE.

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Thanks :D
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NO prob
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The new guy who likes you back. Forgot the old guy.

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Thanks. When did i say he liked me back though?
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thanks lol
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I mean maybe the guy that has had 3 girlfriends has other girlfriends because he doesn't know that you have feelings for him. But, I think I would go for the other one. And, if it doesn't work out then see what you can do about the one you've know for a while

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Thank you. I think the first guy sort of picked up on my feelings for him but the more i talk to the other guy the more i forget about the first one.
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sometimes you just have to move on.. And, that does happen if you like someone and someone comes along that actually pays attention to you. You forgot about the first one and want to be with the other one.
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Honey, you can't "decide" who you have feelings for. You have them or not and there is nothing you can do about it.

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Thank you so much. The only reason i'm trying to decide was because I've liked the first guy for so long i feel like it would be a waste to just let go, but i start to forget about the first guy when i talk to the other one.
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I understand, listen to your heart.
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second guy

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The thing is, the first guy isn't a bad guy. He's flirty and lots of girls liek him including one supermodel.
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You should not settle down for any guy. Forget about the old guy that has girlfriends and never gave you a chance. Also, Don't settle for the nice guy that you sit next to unless you really like him. Play it by ear and see what happens with the nice guy. Don't try to force something to happen if it is not meant to happen.

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Thank you so much this was super helpful!
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The other guy because if you've like that other dude for years and he's already dated 3 girls then he's probably using you for a last minute option if he's ever single and in the need for a girlfriend so ditch him and go for the other guy

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Thanks. The thing is, the first guy isn't a bad guy. He's flirty and lots of girls liek him including one supermodel.
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Go for the new guy . The old guy is playing to many mind games with you . You shouldn't put up with that .

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