When do you become Connor in AC3?
Also, when do you get his coat?
You become Connor when you have finished the missions with haytham. You will start as a kid. You get his coat when he has finished training.
After about an hour of game play when playing Haytham. It depends on how long it takes for you to complete his little questline.
after sequence 3 you become Conner and after sequence 5 (i think) you get the EPIC suit