1 year ago
Last edited at 10:57AM on 11/2/2012
Is is NOT good to tell your spouse everything. My X said a little too much to me and I couldnt handle it. Ruined the marriage. Wasnt a good one anyway but... her info wasnt needed to fuel it. You can bet he doesnt tell YOU everything.... so dont tell him everything. Believe in the trust that you two should have for each other. Dont lie to him... but you dont have to tell him entire truths either.
Oh no, don't do that! Unless you don't want a spouse anymore. Advice from the trenches. I have to consider everything I say to my wife. In fact, I've developed a new area in my brain that receives everything I might say to her before it comes out my mouth. It very quickly analyzes all possible responses from her and either discards the thought completely or rewords it to minimize any negative responses from her. It works really well. Over time, I don't even have to think about using it anymore. It is on automatic. Sometimes things slip by when I'm tired or drunk, but it quickly goes into overdrive to repair the damage I've done.
It isn't good at all. Like someone already answered it could Affect the way you'll feel about one another. I know I have things from my past that I hope doesn't ever come out to my man. The light hasn't shined yet, so shush.