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why am I crushing on this dude!

I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now. I love him, I know I do. I guess I just lost the attraction. so, im attracted to this other dude, and that hurts me. I found that Im attracted to guys I don't know. I don't know maybe its the mystery of not knowing them. so I guess the inverse would be the loss if attraction to my bf BECAUSE I know him. idk what's going on. help?

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You cant help who your attracted to! And if the relationship was at its best you wouldnt be thinking about the other guy! I think you need to dump him but you never really know what you have until its gone.

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It's not uncommon to be attracted to someone else, but if you really love the person you're with, it shouldn't even be a factor. Your boyfriend should be so awesome that it doesn't even matter how hot some other guy is.

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