First, i agree with the others who say congratulations on keeping the baby and stepping up to the plate to give it your all versus taking the coward's way out and having an abortion to try and rid yourself of this entire situation. You sound very courageous and I wish you the best. Aside from being one year older than you, my niece is currently in an extremely similar situation. As a grown, unbiased adult, I understand why her and her boyfriend want to live together to raise the child BUT I also understand why her parents say HELL NO. I am urging my niece to stay with her mother immediately after having the baby because neither her nor her bf have experience with kids but my sister obviously does...I said to her: maybe just stay there for the first 6 months or so til you get the hang of it? Idk.. I'm not sure how the whole emancipation thing works but I think it would be very wise to check into it. The fact that you're so young is unfortunate but I am a very firm believer that GOD WILL NEVER PUT YOU THROUGH ANYTHING YOU CANNOT HANDLE and also, He'd never allow a child to enter this world if He didn't have great plans for it! I'm sorry I couldn't really answer your question, I just wanted to let you know you're not alone. GOOD LUCK
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You can't be emancipated unless u can prove u can care for ur self n ur child (financial) Becuz your bf parents can still kick u out n all that. So try gettin a job first n try seeing if ur bf n u can get a place together
wow. Face your mom and ask her. You wont find any answer here on ask.
Geez...get an abortion ur to young
Oh, honey! I'm so glad you're keeping the baby! You're a strong, independent woman. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. You do what's best for you and the baby. If you have to leave your mother, do it. Do what's best for you and the baby. I'm so proud of you and God bless your soul! I'm praying for you!
You could defiantly emancipate yourself by taking your parents to court due to the conditions. But you might have to wait until your actually 16 in order for you to reasonably old enough or considered an adult in court.
Wow. I am just so proud of you. I am 15 and I cant imagine being a mom. I wish you the best of luck. God bless
I think your decision making thus far would make it difficult for a court to grant you emancipation. I hope that you appreciate how badly you've stunted your future by becoming pregnant before you yourself have grown to maturity.
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No affiance, but your stupid. Getting pregnant early is a problem, your body isn't fully developed and the baby is more likely to be born with something wrong with him/her, and moving in with the boyfriend isn't the best idea, stay with your mom. Because moving will just cause more stress on you and the baby, and your boyfriend. Since he has a job he won't be able to help you with the baby cause he will be working, that's where the mom comes in, she can help you with the baby. There is always an option of abortion, but I wouldn't consider it. Just stay with your mother. The boyfriend can provide food, money etc without you moving in with him and just make things worse. I'm not telling you what you should do, I'm just saying that you should consider it
And she's not 16 she 15
Read correctly and yes it does, do your research
You have no right to call anyone stupid
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And my information is true, my information, I'm not basing this on what I think is true
well, my friend's mom flipped when she found out her daughter was pregnat at 13 but after the baby was born she was all like awwwww and she cried everytime she saw her holding or feeding the baby or saying things like mommy is here when he(the baby) cried......she moved in with her boyfriend rite after the baby was born and 2 months after he said he wanted to break up with her and kicked her out so she moved back in with her mom. So make sure he will love you before you move in.
i don't think that we have enough facts to answer this question thoroughly.., for ex. what are the conditions at home and is it really bad enough for a court to allow two kids who already made a mistake and got pregnant to live together. if that's the case and you do end up living together.., i see you getting pregnant every other year and that's not cool. so please prove me wrong!!!! i do think that it would be best for you and the child to stay with your mom or a family member if things are really bad but no, you shouldn't move in with your boyfriend. your a child with 1 grown-up problem and that will just make it 2.
Not judging on the 15 and pregnant but you may be opening something you are not ready to deal with! That being the charges on your boyfriend for sexual assault on a child. Yes, you still are a child in the courts eyes! Your boyfriend, if charged and convicted will have to register every year on his birthday as a sexual violator. Chances are CPS will get involved anyway! First of all take care of the baby! Not preaching just stating fact!
Some states say at 15 it matters not if he is 18 or over it is still sexual assault!
You are already being a good parent, by saying you do not want your child raised in an abusive environment. There are teen pregnancy support organisations that can help you with the pregnancy and the child after the birth. Call the national referral help line 211 and tell them you are a pregnant teen looking for pregnancy support to keep your baby and they will give you some referrals for in your area.
There is a pregnancy support line at 1-800-848-LOVE (5683). They have someone to talk to 24/7 and can help you figure out your options concerning having the baby, housing, finances and any questions or concerns you may have while pregnant.
You can also go to https://www.care-net.org/aboutus/ to connect with someone who will support you keeping your baby and to help you figure out your options.
God bless.
you need to give it up for a adoption
You seem to be a great mommy, but yea you should move out. TELL HER GOODBYE!!!
If I were you, I would move in with him. And yes, you can go to court and get emancipated because since you have all of that stuff at your boyfriends house and he has a job, then they will see you guys as responsible.
