Go for it. It's your day, you be happy. If it's getting stupid, then elope. Secretly, a lot people will thank you for not having to go through all the associated b.s...sitting through a reception with strangers, renting formal clothes, gift registries, bridesmaid drama, duelling parents, freakshow relatives, that one drunk guy that makes an ass of himself....yeah. Be happy. Make a memory you won't be embarrassed to relive!