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Should I say something to her?

over the past few days my friend has been acting different the first day i thought she just had a bad day the second i told myself to give it a few more days maybe she just needs to cool down but it's been four days now and she is still being snotty to me she won't agree to disagree and when i try and drop the subject she refuses to stop fighting with me when i go home i'm so annoyed with her i'm worried something happened to make her angry or something but from what she has been telling me every thing seems fine i don't know if i should say something or leave it and if i do say something what?

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If I were you, I'd just tell her pretty much what you've stated here- but maybe say something like-(of course not these EXACT words) but--"I've noticed you haven't quite been acting yourself lately, and that when I try and ask you, you sorta blow me off. I know there's SOMETHING wrong, dunno WHAT-so I won't push you. Just want you to know that if you need to talk to anyone about WHATEVER it is, that I'm here for you. Ok? So, I won't push you anymore and you know you have a friend in me". Thats the only thing I can think of to say to your friend. Hopefully, this friend will confide in you cuz it seems that something is very wrong. From how you describe it-sounds to me as if someone was talkin smack about you to her.Feel her out and if you feel the need to, just come out and ask her if you've done anything wrong to piss her off.(wait for response first) and THEN ask if someone WAS talkin smack about YOU.- But SAVE that part for LAST- otherwise, she'll think you guilty of something-- IF someone has done that. Please be patient. Good luck.

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return the attitude if she ask why your acting like that. You say just acting the same way u are..so excuse me i have goals and things to think about, and by the way my real friends are waiting...hmmm...

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Yeah, you should say something to her. She seems irked, Lango from my sister. Take her to the movies to calm her nerves, buy her roses and chocolate to sweeten her up, then.... wait for it..... ask her what was wrong with her lately.

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well wait a whole week cuz she might be PMSing but if not then say something dont be mean about it though jut be like hey why are yiou acting differnt its annoying are you okay and stuff be nice and sweet cuz you want to keep her as a friend you dont wanna make her go away i wish you the best :)

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You should definitely say something to her.

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If you think It'd come between you then deff say something but me and my best friend get in stupid fights all the time and we just forget what we were arguing about and don't bring it up

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Honestly, you should just give her some space. Because it gets really irritating when you get asked whats wrong too many times. She'll eventually be ready to talk about what happened or she might just want to move on from whatever.

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well she might be havin her health

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