I feel like my wife does not enjoy when I'm around.which is not very much cause I need to work Alit ti support our lifestyle.
You need to figure out which is more important to her; your presence or the lifestyle you are working so hard to support. In addition to that, you should talk this through or get a counselor to help in communication.
Why do you feel that way? What sort of things is she doing to make you feel this way?