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I am a boy but i think i love a boy is it good or bad ?

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its totally fine ^_^ you can love whoever you want ;)

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Yeah i agree with you but how can i tell him i love you?
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the easiest way is to tell him :)
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Just make sure he is also gay or else you might make him feel very uncomfortable if he's not open minded!
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yes, that too lol
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its okay some boys love other boys so its okay

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Yeah i agree with you but how can i tell him i love you?
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depends on your religion standards, but from my point its very bad

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From my point, religion is very bad. I'd much prefer seeing two guys kissing then one strapping himself (wait for it) with a bomb and killing the other. I have never seen gay terrorists, a gay crusade, although I'm sure they would be quite fashionable but there just not the violent type. Religion on the other hand, carte blanche for anything under the sun, as long as it serves "god". Be who you are, anything else is just a sin!
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This^^^
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yess^^^^^^^
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No!! Love is love, our body is just a shell. love who you want, kiss who you want to kiss. Its your live and its not bad.

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agreed^-^
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if you are in Iran you coud be executed. Be careful.
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Nice answer Rainbow Puke lol
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Tanks :3
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* fof the info, i agree 100%
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Is puke your name or your thought process? A Brain is a terrible thing to waste. Make you parents proud.
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Yes because p60462 is so much better. Make your parents proud, if you kow them.
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well it all depends do u feel a spark when u talk to him if so then thts good.

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Whatever floats your boat :-/

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Look up Moral relativism.
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p60462 seems in dire need of a hug.
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no, love who you love. it is your own business.

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its fine. the heart wants what the heart wants. HOW CAN DEPRIEVE YOUR HEART OF THAT?

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Real brilliant! Very profound. You should find something to do with your life like using your brain to finish school for starters. How can you you deprive your brain of that?
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ok...ay. and what is that suppose to mean?! 0_o are you tRYING to tell me that can't give intelligent advice or something?!
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No, he's trying to tell you he's a small minded little person with sexual identity issues that he cannot come to terms with, pretty sad actually.
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BAD RELLy BAD ...

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Booooooooooo!
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BOO! you Horcrux >_<
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seriously... you cant tell this kid hes doing something wrong because hes not... you can love who you want... case closed.
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I second that boo >_<
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sorry i was raised in church
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That's no excuse, unless you can't think for yourself.
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your mean im only 13 im jest saying what i believe in
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All the more reason my young friend. You should question anything that asks you to label someone based on a select criteria. You should love your fellow man no matter his or her color, religion, sexual orientation, political view, geographical location, etc. To label anyone based on a single fact is a childish reaction and judging by your recent responses, you sir are no child.

Keep an open mind, keep an open heart and with or without those influences that taught you to find homosexuality a sin, you will be a good person and people will look up to you for what you stand for instead of who you stand with.
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but the low says im a child until im 18
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That doesn't mean you cannot think the way you want. And trust me, I understand when you believe something that your parents or immediate surroundings disapprove of, it's very hard. And on most of those issues, if you have loving parents, they are doing their best to make you the best person you can be. However, any teachings that absolutely excludes anyone based on categorization should be researched and you should form your own opinion. And you can do that anytime, whether under or over 18! It's great to see someone your age so open to ideas, good for you!
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i dont know what to say
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Dude, you need not say anything, just keep an open mind. The world is an amazing place but only for those who allow for amazing things to exist!

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acceptable already...^-^...stay in love...<3

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Kind of bugs me. But if that's your thing. Whatever.

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its only your Decision to make. and maybe his

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It's as much as a decision as when you decided that you like [insert preferred gender here] (here's a hint: you didn't)
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that is not what i meant by that! i was trying to say only he can decide weather it a good thing or a bad thing. and as for the boy he likes its his right to feel what he wants about it. i do not judge people based on anything except if they are mean or not mean
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by the way i lived V for vendetta :)
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you're fine, also, It's not for V for Vendetta, it's Anonymous, but thanks still :3.
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How does he feel?

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Its your business and choice at the end of the day

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Wow! Very profound! You are so wise.
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do what ur heart wants u to do hun .... god loves u either way!!

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God created Adam and Eve. Not Adam and Steve.
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people cant help who they have feelings for though^
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God didn't create Adam and Eve or Steve. Noah didn't float any boat. Jesus didn't do the river dance. But LOVE, now that;s something I believe in!
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Be careful! who you take advise from because no one here cares not even 2 bits about you. God will always love you but respects free will. He even loves those who condem themselves to Hell.
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No, the only person who doesn't seem to care here is you p60462. So go hide behind your infantile coping mechanism and pass judgment on people you could never understand. We grown ups will continue discussing while you deal with your own petty little issues.
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I dont get what any of u guys sai lo i am full christian and belive everything that the bible says
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Ignorance is indeed bliss meggie, and as long as you believe, your reality will co-exist with your delusions. That being said, you are better off than I am, the burden of knowledge comes at the cost of innocence lost.
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You are born the way you were intended to be. Never let Religion get in the way of who you are and who you love.
Not everyone will accept you, but those that love you will (even if it takes them some time).
Be happy young man, and be true to yourself. Godspeed.

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That's awesome :D

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its totally ok and its totally normal!
you cant help who you love! :3

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You love a boy, respect him, be true to him and you are good to go. The same applies to loving anyone else for that matter. Love has no gender, no color, no belief, no conditions.

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listen what ever makes u happy I say go for it enjoy yourself how dose he feel about u ? let him know how u feel if he don't feel the same move on but don't hide cuz u will regret it later in life u will wish u had told him good luck

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It's absolutely fine. If someone says it's not then they're crap on a platter, they are horrible people. You should love and like whoever you want. It's okay do whatever makes you feel happier.

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Eh... What if the boy isn't gay? Furthermore, why in the hell would you post such a question knowing that you are going to get so many homophobic/anti-gay postings on here?! Are you an idiot??... Well, obviously so. Whatever floats your boat kid. This world is already shit. Let's add gay marriage while we're at it.

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Actually, if you read the comments, the VAST majority are very compassionate and open minded. You simply described yourself and you did a fantastic job at it! I believe it clear who is the true idiot here. Still feeling the sting of Obama aren't you? Pity.
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I have to give Kudos to NotOfThisEarth. I could NOT have expressed myself better then you have to this idiot.
As I looked back on the answers given, 99% of the responses were mature, compassionate and supportive towards the question asked.
Congratulations for being that 1%. Perhaps you should open your mind up a tiny bit, maybe some light will shine through.
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If that's the case, then I am very proud to be that 1%. Any boy (or girl) who finds it sexually satisfying to have things where they don't belong and go against God's nature is the "idiot". The kid asked, and as the rest of you, I expressed my answer. Obama? Really? Don't recall mentioning anything about Obama. Not into that whole pile of bs. Freedom of speech. :) Have a lovely night.
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I agree with longhorn...
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You guys would make a lovely intolerant couple, all the best!
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I wish I could rate comments. I would give longhorns0926 a fifteen out of a ten! <3
I am so following you!
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Then you need to change your name.
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case and point, thank you.
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Sure hope someone you care about ends up being gay, so you can see just how ridiculous and infantile your biased really is. Until then, enjoy your ignorance, perhaps your height provides an air too thin to be compassionate.
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It's EXTREMELY Bad.

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This from a cat! I think not!
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True
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"Is it wrong for a man to love another man?" - Rush L.

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How would you know, are you God?
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Marty: no, Satan. Feel better?
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You don't have to be God to know what God said :/
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Rush L. is God? Whew knew? I just thought he was a Vicodin addict with a deep seated hatred of women.
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This is what god said:
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Bardia, there is no issue about your sexuality. Just don't grow up defining yourself by it. No matter your orientation.

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It's your life to live and you should do what makes you happy!

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What if slicing kittens makes me happy?
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See a psychiatrist
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no. I'll do what makes me happy. SLICE KITTENS!
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Good, you go ahead and do that, you kind of look the part anyway.
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Love whoever you want to love. Don't worry about what other people think about you... be with who you want to be with as long you love that person that is all that matters it is your life :D<33

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if your happy with it... just one thing maybe its your head maybe hes the bestest friend u ever had u think u like him try to see b4 u make something go wrong...

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Yeah if hes your best friend I agree - Kinda in the same situation myself... But you dont want to crush a relationship with your bf for nothing...
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I can't tell how old you are but you seem young, so, when you are maturing into manhood it is normal to have feelings for someone of the same gender. What you don't have is the emotional maturity to tell if the feelings are romantic or brotherly. Be absolutely sure that what you feel is romantic love and not brotherly love before you do anything that might cause you to lose a good friend.

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As long as YOU are happy, no one else should matter

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Whatever floats your boat dude

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of course its fine...love who u want it dont matter what sex u are xx

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I think you should love whoever you want and stay true to yourself! Dont be someone your not because your afraid of what others will think of you!

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It is perfectly fine!!:)

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Love is simply love<3

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that is totes kk

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Love is Love. It has no color, no price, no gender, it's your life, live it how you please. (:

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LOVE love

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love is good

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Very Bad

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everything that you do for love is always worth the risk !!

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personally it seems wrong to me but if you think you love him go for it, its not a bad thing

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it means that you are gay kiddo

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As long as your happy whatever other people have to say about it is not important. Love who you want because at the end of the day no one else matters except the one you love (:

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u liking another dude is fine i mean there is chicks liking other chicks so it is just fine

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It's fine. Jeez! don't listen too people who tell ya otherwise.

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Thats completly fine(: you love who ever you love(: -CH

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That's fine don't be like what's wrong with me your fine, and yes some people will not like it that's your gay but screw them... if ur a boy and like boys then your gay...if u like boys and girls than your bi... Good luck figuring your self out.

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love whoever you want ! :)

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If thats how u feel go for it.....:):)

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Very bad

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it is very bad and and an abomination the sight of God

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It's good, everything happens for a reason and god made your life like that.

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Look at all the Dumb brainless answers.... Do it! What ever floats your boat, Do what you want at any time! ect... Its a passing thing for a boy. You body and brain is not fully developed till you are at least 25. Do you have a Father in your life? Do you play sports? Do you volunteer for any thing? Go talk to a spirtual advisor. Cordially

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What standards do you live your life according to. What standards did you grow up with? You already have these answers. If you're in conflict, speak with a older person you trust. Remember, all issues can be dealt with.

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It's no ones business who you like if you love a person you love them no question about it if someone has a problem with it they can shove it, it is your life live it how you want.

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No one told u who u can or cannot like. If u have a crush on him dont be ashamed.

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I don't think it is bad

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It's perfectly normal to have those thoughts and feelings

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