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Is it stupid for a girl to ask a guy out?

I think it is, but i wanted to know some opinions.

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No, but the guy loses major Man points.

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no

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Yes, Never do that

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Why not?
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Wow.
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I girl has rights too.
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I'd prefer if girls ask me out but I'm not a typical guy and not just a typical guy claiming he's not a typical guy.

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Ofcourse not, sometimes the boy will be shy, or not notice you, but once you call his attention and ask him out, he will see how awsome you are.

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No of course not.

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no its not stupid its jus friends being friends

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No, I actually would like if the girl asked, that would be epic :D

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Not really...Some girls prefer for the guy to ask her out, while some are more daring....I prefer to ask the girl out but if she were to ask I wouldn't dare decline her request...so no it isn't weird

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No if the guy was into you he would have asked you out or get him to notice you so he can ask you but nothing goes well when you ask the guy out it rarely does

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Not stupid, though you shouldn't have too. If you have to the guy you are in to should lose some major credibility...You should be honest and tell him how you feel, but if he feels the same way then HE should ask YOU out. Not the other way around.

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No not at all

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No

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No girls can ask out guys

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I think you should go for it. Life is short..

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I ask out some girls but probably would like a lot more if a girl would ask me out

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I don't think so. My wife asked me out and we have been married over 20 years. It was the best yes I have ever done. Good luck !!!!

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im glad to hear that there are still marriages that last in this world. im terrified to get married but its nice to hear that there are couples who stay together
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It's the 21st century, so get cracking, ask that guy out! And no, it's not stupid! ;)

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Not in the least, no.

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no

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i think that it is ok. u be the daring one

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Nah, I've had two girls ask me out XD

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its okay in my opinion. Why do you think it's stupid?

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Well its just natural that the guy would. I mean...do women ask men to marry them? No. So why should the girls ask out the guys? if the guys dont, then they clearly dont like them more than a friend.
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And what's wrong with that, in your opinion?
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Its not natural :P
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no that girl knows what she wants

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I dare you ...

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lol..its not a problem with a girl asking a guy out..all he could say is no and if he says no you just keep living your life it not going to kill you...
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Is not !!!! But who ever ask first supposibly has the " control " on the relationship And guys like to think they hace the control

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No...Absolutely not....these are different times. Go for it. Good luck

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No if you just want to have fun

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No what a horrible thing to say I would have never met the girl of my dreams if she didn't nudge me (She didn't ask me out, but she did confront me) I say go for it. The guy may be just as interested but a little more shy than you. We are living in the 21st century women can do anything men can do.

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no. the guy might be relieved because he doesnt have to go through that awkward process of asking a girl out.

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not at all. ive initiated making a date with a guy before and he was happy bc he wasnt sure how to bring it up and that was when we met. there is nothing wrong with asking a guy out. i know it can seem scary but just go for it.

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Nope, I'd perfer for a guy to ask me out but he might be shy orsomething so id go for it.

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No... Why would asking someone out be stupid?

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not really, but it seems more common for guys to ask girls out for some reason

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No. But it's more likely he will turn you down... Good luck :)

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no

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Of course not.

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not really.

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No! i think its coooooooooooool take the pressure of a guy 4 once

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No way! Girls gotta get some credit!

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no

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no, sometimes guys are to shy to ask them selves, then you both miss out on what could be something special, never be afraid to ask for what you want.

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No it's not weird. Cause in my case, and most guys cases, they think you don't notice them so you asking them, well I know you would have a yes in the bag and so do others. But man am I weird answer these questions if all I know is call of duty and skyrim. Lol

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I dont think so? personally i think the guy should ask her out.i would like that better.

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If you like him.. ask him... otherwise his fear will most likely keep you apart forever.
I myself have a girl I have liked for 40 years.. still can't ask her.. stupid Yes, but that's just the truth of the way it is !!!

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no not at all! ive realized guys love it when the girl makes a move

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nope the guy should ask you out but you know, maybe the guy is shy or something

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usually a guy is the one to ask, they are the ones that are supposed to have the courage to come up to the girl thay love and ask

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no, he's probably too shy to so do it. If he does decline then say it was a dare that your friend made u do.

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no not at all

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No. Probably not.

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