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My online boyfriend keeps calling me his wife!! I told him to stop it n he doesn't want to stop! What should I do?! Help me!!

My friends thinks that I shouldn't tell him they it bothers me! I honestly am done thinking about how people are going to react!!

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"Divorce" him

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lol
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lmfao
u always come up with the funniest answers tony
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Haha thanks :-)
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lol ur welcome
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U should consider me as ur online boyfriend!

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Dump him for a real life boyfriend. The whole point of online is fantasy, getting what you want. He's not even "real" and he's a pain in the a$$.
Tell him you don't like the wifey thing, maybe he'll switch it to fiance.Good luck.

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I tried to tell him nicely, he didn't stop!
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He sounds a little" off"
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I know.. :/
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Stop communicating with him. Spend time with friends you can see and laugh with.
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Dont tell him "nicely" tell him like you mean it use swear words
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Snoopdog, whoa, yeah, I'd throw stuff at him too! : )))
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Lolololol thanx!
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If your state recognizes common law spouses, it may cause you some trouble later on - especially if you break up. It sounds like he is trying to control you and your relationship and he doesn't respect your wishes. That should be a red flag. Research the common law issue in your state and talk to a counselor about the issue of your boyfriend's control and respect. You can find a hotline phone number to call for a local family violence center to get information about what you should and should NOT tolerate in a relationship.

You might also, tell him that he missed a step. You are supposed to be a fiancée before you become a wife!

God bless!

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Thank you very much! :))
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uh.......they don't live together. just chit chat online.
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uh.......over my head like a stealth bomber.
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Tell him that you are the one with the divorce plan now im going to
Bed cause iran 2 miles back and forth to get my car fixed

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I had a suitor who did the same thing. Turned out he let some stuff slip and he was from Nigeria trying to scam any body he could, and kept calling me "Wifey"! Eewww! Watch out!

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So, I guess you didn't sponsor him, right!
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Darn straight!
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I told him to STOP IT! He didn't even reply -.-'
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Good! One less drip you have to worry about!
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kick him to the curb

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Computer pickup on garbage day.
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He's weird. Don't talk to him anymore. Wife... sounds like a sicko.

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Thanx!
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Delete him

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Sounds as if he is even further detached from reality than you are. Believe me sugar, don't take this on-line relationship business too seriously. It won't aid you in becoming a functional real-life companion when you decide to pursue a relationship in person.

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DELETE ....1 button give it a big push!

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Stop talking to him
He'll get over it

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That creates a psycho. You've got to let them down easier. You won't want somebody to do that to you, right? It's just the right thing to do.
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This isn't a movie
All it does is give the hint that you're smothering someone
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This guy sounds like bad news. Let him down easy and get interested with something else. Maybe start up something with a nice local guy. Just faze the weirdo out. The lesson to learn here is that when the one you love asks you to stop something over and over again (once should have been enough), you should listen up. Good luck and be careful on the Internet. I won't tell that the Internet dating thing doesn't work because I'm living proof that it does and I'm very happy. :) Please be careful, kiddo.

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No problem. Just take it slow. We don't want to further create a psycho...
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:) Thanks!
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So you make yourself clear and he ignores you? Is there something wrong with you?

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With me???? Uhmmmmmm no! If I had a problem, I wouldn't mention only him~
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So then figure out what a future with him would be like. If he's discounting your adamant request when everything is new, what might it be like after you've been together for a while?
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Since this is an online problem for which you have received excellent advice, simply delete. This is not good for you.

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Ignore him, delete him, and don't date online. O.o

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Dating on online is not what you should be doing, who knows how many other girls he's dating online

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True that.
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Block him if you can .

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This is a problem try to avoid as much as you can or at least block him from reaching you ( idk) but at least try

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Thanks! :))
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delete him and block him

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If this guy is calling you his "wife" and you only know his "online" you need to make sure you NEVER MEET him off line. Be ver careful.

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lenaE14

Dump him!!!!

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Never have an online boyfriend. He could be lying he may be some 60 year old. Breakup with him and delete you account.

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Flush him like a used plug

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Ask for an online divorce. Tell him if he won't leave you you'll find somebody who will.

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