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I have been dating this guy for a while and everything was good until now..

i am the type of person that never calls or texts until the other one does and i think that he is tired of always being the one to do so..he hasnt talked to me for a week should i call him or will this seem to him that i am chasing him?i dont want him to take me for granted!

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Of course, you should call him .. If you are exclusively dating .. It might be an idea to make sure all is well with him. "Chasing him", would be calling multiple times a day .. Calling once a week, is not chasing .. especially, if you are already in some level of a relationship. THAT is called keeping in touch.

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Call him, hes been chaseing after you so chase after him now :3 Hope it works out

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If it's been a week since y'all last talked I imagine he's already moved on and you missed your chance.

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Could be
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How are you today gator?
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I'm great,and you?
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Im good thank you....... now that i made sure you were alright ......... imma skin you, you stinkin gator! Lol
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I think I'll have Chinese duck for lunch
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You know i would miss you if you were gone, i would make a belt and shoes outta you, but i would miss you.
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Oh and you can have all the chinese duck you want...... im an American duck so there! :P lol
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And American duck....I'll just have my Chinese chef do the job
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Soooo mean..... im tellin sunshiny one!
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Id say give him a call and see what is up. Maybe he met someone who doesnt mind calling and texting him once in a while. I get fed up if I am the one always making the effort, its nice to feel wanted to.

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What's wrong with calling him or texting him ? Give it a shot :) Although it has already been a week, you could still give it a try. If you don't want him to take you for granted, then don't take him for granted before both of you diverge into your separate ways. Call or text, or just be honest with him. There's nothing wrong with that. Try :))

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He probably, and rightfully, feels that this relationship is imbalanced, and he's doing all the work. Don't stand on ceremony, pick up the phone, give him a call, and show him he's not beating a dead horse.

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Give him a call, it's much more personal than a text. If you guys have been dating a while then you're not chasing him. Men love getting those random calls or texts that let them know their girl is thinking of him too.

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maybe he thinks you don't like him so much that's why you never call or text him. he hasn't definitely moved on. maybe you should assure him that you care a bout this whole dating thing as much as he does.

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Well you had a good run.
. Good for you

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Seems you were the one taking advantage of him, you should have made just as much effort to contact him as he has been using contacting you, you arent that kinda person? Now might be a gpod time to start, you dont have to text or call every second but once or twice wont hurt. And letting a whole week go by with out talking to him it kinda like saying were through, my suggestion, go talk to him without deley you may still be able to work things out.

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If your going out with him you guys should talk every day!!

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This is real simple. A friend of mine told me once, if a girl doesn't return your calls, or you are the one always calling her, it show she is not interested. That rule has almost always proved true. If you do like him, and you care, call him. Sounds like the relationship has been one sided, and that is no fun at all for the person doing all the work. If you are exclusive, plan a date and take him out, write him a note, take some initiative.

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