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Is it a bad thing that I have a crush on my best friend's boyfriend. And should I date her crush.

I have liked this boy for years and my best friend knew that I had a huge crush on him. But then she started dating him even though she likes another guy and says she has no interest in her boyfriend. Everyone keeps telling me that I should date her crush since he likes me. I'm not sure if I am the one being the bad friend here though.

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do you like her crush, if not then dont date him, you will only hurt him by using him to get back at your friend. I would reccomend telling the guy you actually have a crush on, that his girlfriend openly admitted she has no interest in him, that would be appropriate, but how would you feel if a guy you liked asked you out for the sole purpose of getting his friend's goat, you would probably be really angry, so dont do that to a perfectly innocent guy, that would be you acting like a bad person, not a bad friend, dont be that girl.

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um yah.. if she knew u liked him.. then i would.. cause that wasnt very nice of her to date him if she knew u liked him..

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Date her crush. She would have no right to be mad at you.

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