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shaylen:
6 months ago
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Last edited at 12:05AM on 11/12/2012
No, I don't. Not married yet, but I can't wait to someday. I want to spend the rest of my life with someone I love, and to have a family.
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don't get me wrong, I like alone time just as much as the next person. I need my alone time to ponder, read, or do my little hobbies. but at the end of the day, I'd love to just have someone I can bear my soul to and vica versa with them.
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SummerSucks:
6 months ago
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Of course. I am not interested in getting into a relationship at all because of several reasons: I like being alone and don't need anyone to help screw my life up (I can do that myself, lol), seen too many friends have bad relationships, my mom was a single parent and she did just fine.
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EdwardGoodman:
6 months ago
screwed my life up two times and paid for it and that was because of being in a relationship. for some reason, life for me is good now. oh, no wonder, I'm not in a relationship.
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LukaStruka:
6 months ago
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Last edited at 12:02AM on 11/12/2012
Dude, it's not about cheap and expensive... And yes, it can be really nice feeling having a complete freedom... But when the things go bad, you know, if you get sick, get hurt in accident, fall in depression... Then you will see how much you need support of your family, you know, one that you don't want to have...
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EdwardGoodman:
6 months ago
Dude, been sick, heart attack and stroke, luckly not to bad hurt in the five auto accidents I have been in, and I did just fine without support of family. depression is not even in my vocabulary. life is good. So as you can read, been there, done that.
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LukaStruka:
6 months ago
I'm just trying to get to you, those were just few examples. Humans are social beings, nobody wants solitude. I mean, it can be nice having nobody to worry and care about, but that is something that keeps you going and gives you reason to live... or maybe that's just me...
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LukaStruka:
6 months ago
What can I say Edward- Enjoy your life, and do as it makes you happy. I hope for you it will last.
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chouetteraccoon:
6 months ago
via iPhone
Not me, but I'm glad it works for you.
I love peace and quiet, but I enjoy it way more when I have someone to share it with. To each his/her own., eh? :)
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EdwardGoodman:
6 months ago
after the two failed marriages, it made me see the light. sure it would be nice to have someone to enjoy it with, but that ain't going to happen.
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chouetteraccoon:
6 months ago
via iPhone
"Never say never. It always comes back to bite you in the butt. " (my grandad said)
It's good when you can enjoy being single. I did too (after a while) after my divorce. It's an art form, and takes a basic appreciation of life, I think, to hack it solo and be content.
Just when I thought I had it covered, I met my husband. He was such a surprise as a person, that he kinda put a damper on living single. It lost its appeal if he wasn't around. What can ya do then? I took the plunge against all odds and I won (thankfully) this time.
So enjoy the single life. But be forewarned: sometimes a good one can sneak up on you and wreck your plans.
It's good either way, though.
Life IS good, eh?
It's good when you can enjoy being single. I did too (after a while) after my divorce. It's an art form, and takes a basic appreciation of life, I think, to hack it solo and be content.
Just when I thought I had it covered, I met my husband. He was such a surprise as a person, that he kinda put a damper on living single. It lost its appeal if he wasn't around. What can ya do then? I took the plunge against all odds and I won (thankfully) this time.
So enjoy the single life. But be forewarned: sometimes a good one can sneak up on you and wreck your plans.
It's good either way, though.
Life IS good, eh?
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EdwardGoodman:
6 months ago
yepper, the right one just ain't up in my neck of the woods. I don't like drama, so as it stands now life IS good.
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MzBlanche4U:
6 months ago
Let me guess, both marriages resulted in divorce were due to the "women" you were married to?
I don't buy that, not for a minute!!!
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shaylen:
6 months ago
Haha. They're two sides to every story- and blaming it 100% on the women tells a lot. Marriages take work and effort on both parts- sounds like someone didn't put in much of an effort. My grandparents have been married 50 years, my parents 21. I want that to be me someday:)
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MzBlanche4U:
6 months ago
lol, shaylen, I'm a firm believer in there are 3 sides to every story, his, hers, and the truth. I've was in a 30 year marriage, now divorced, and now married the true love of my life for almost 8 years. We laugh together everyday, and we try our best to never go to bed angry. My husbands parents have been married 49 years this month, and his grandparents are 97 and 95, they celebrated their 72nd wedding anniversary in September. Now that's true love, and devotion.
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EdwardGoodman:
6 months ago
first failed marriage = wanted more benjamins, second failed marriage = told I deserved someone better. believe it or not. don't matter to me if you do or not. no harm no foul.
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shaylen:
6 months ago
My great grandparents on my dad side are both gone- but my great grandma on my mom's side-her husband died before my mom was even born. His picture is framed in her room-so sad yet sweet. I think they were married a long time too. And congrats btw :)
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MzBlanche4U:
6 months ago
@ Shaylen, thanks!
@ Edward Goodman, re: first marriage, she wanted more money, awe you poor thing. Remember, for better or worse, or for richer or poorer.
re: your second marriage, I'll call that "lip service," it was her way of getting out. Telling you what you WANTED to hear!
@ Edward Goodman, re: first marriage, she wanted more money, awe you poor thing. Remember, for better or worse, or for richer or poorer.
re: your second marriage, I'll call that "lip service," it was her way of getting out. Telling you what you WANTED to hear!
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shaylen:
6 months ago
@edward-didnt see your comment. I don't doubt there were issues with your wives, nobody is perfect-but I believe that there are TWO sides to every story, and you seem pretty content to take no fault or responsibility. I am in no place to judge not knowing the full story-but I find it's seldom one person's fault.
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EdwardGoodman:
6 months ago
shaylen, In my first marriage, I was a house husband taking care of three small children. the wife worked because she said she could not take care of our children that it drove her crazy. could not afford a day care so we could both work. man, taking care of three small children day in an day out is worse than going to a job. you will find this out when you have children. My first wife, the one we have the children with, meet another man where she worked out who promised her the world. She ran off with him, took everything he had, and as to this day she is on her fourth marriage and still ain't found her castle. She did manage to destroy our children mentally.
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EdwardGoodman:
6 months ago
well, her mother finally broke down and told me that my childrens mother had mental problems when their mother was a child. I did not know this when I married her. Never was told this. Married 7 years to her before she just up and went beserk on me. If I knew this, I would of never of married her and had children with her. Right to this day, my children are 27, 26 and 23 years old and don't want nothing to do with me due to their mother's lies about me. They know the truth now. All three are seeing a psycharitist. They are my children though, and I will always love them no matter what.
Now, as for my second wife, she was physically abused by her bf when I met her. She dumped him and hooked up with me. She is 10 years older than me. I treated her like a queen as I did my first wife. For some reason, she just up and said our marriage was not going to work out and I deserved some one better. We were married only 6 months but shacked for 3 years before. Only thing I can figure out is that I showed her too much love and I was to good to her.
Believe it or not, this is the truth. People who know me, knows this.
Now, as for my second wife, she was physically abused by her bf when I met her. She dumped him and hooked up with me. She is 10 years older than me. I treated her like a queen as I did my first wife. For some reason, she just up and said our marriage was not going to work out and I deserved some one better. We were married only 6 months but shacked for 3 years before. Only thing I can figure out is that I showed her too much love and I was to good to her.
Believe it or not, this is the truth. People who know me, knows this.
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EdwardGoodman:
6 months ago
thanks for understanding now. time for me to hit the rack, haven't been to bed yet after getting off work at 0800 hrs., NC time this morning. you have a good evening.
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God create eve because he saw that man should not be alone..I divorced after almost 20 yrs of marriage..been divorce for almost 6 yrs..I've ask God to find me an honest,loyal,faithful God fearing man...I don't like being alone.
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EdwardGoodman:
6 months ago
hope you find who you are looking for. as for myself, I can't afford children without help. even though I work 40 hours a week, I just bring home $1,022 a month. have to rent a room in a shelter and for medical care, the VA hospital. II am one Army veteran.
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Everybodyhurts13483:
5 months ago
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Last edited at 11:09PM on 12/1/2012
What's a Benjamin Eddie? And you got me. If you don't like it, too bad.
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...She's got my picture in her locket / I got my hand in her back pocket / Walkin" through the night...
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