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xo_xo_xo: 6 months ago via Android | Last edited at 2:02PM on 11/13/2012

Why do they judge me?

Ok so my friends judge me just because I started cutting they are also judging my other friend who also cuts but they are mostly judging her and ignoring her, They will talk to me and stuff but they judge me ,I really dont care what they say but they are just making me so pissed because they judge my friend and me, so how can I stop that?

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kuuipo: 6 months ago | Last edited at 2:13PM on 11/13/2012

I don't even care why your friends are judging you. What I do care about is why you're cutting...there are so many better ways to release your anger/stress/depression. Please stop hurting yourself...

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samanthajune: 6 months ago via iPhone

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Peacerules: 6 months ago via Android

Ok....well you and your friend should'nt care AT ALL of what they tell you guys, they can go to hell if they want!, but they dont know your story so they are just really just judging them selves so just ignore them, they will have to stop anytime now , So just live your life normally :)

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Mario_64: 6 months ago | Last edited at 2:07PM on 11/13/2012

Thier not your friends if they judge you, but just dont talk to them but to your other friend( its really your choice)

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SupermanFan101: 6 months ago

It's in people's nature to judge others that are different.

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adventurer4ever: 6 months ago via Android

because theyre jealous of you

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Rainbow_Puke: 6 months ago via Android

This is why i cut, Stress, School feeling wanted, Exceptence. dont care what people think, your going to be judge your whole life and learn to not care. And friends dont judge if they are friends. Friends matter whats on the inside not on the outside. I cut and i say my scars are my untold past, Just draw on my wrists, Ankles and thighs. Dont feel bad, im here for you.

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xo_xo_xo: 6 months ago via Android

Thanks

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Rainbow_Puke: 6 months ago via Android

Of course :3

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joeblo89: 6 months ago

you dont need to cute yourself sweety just dont let thim get to you

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Apep: 6 months ago via iPhone

Are you serious? YOU'RE MUTILATING YOURSELF. They're judging you because a mentally healthy human being doesn't cause self injury. Go see a doctor, please.

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Rainbow_Puke: 6 months ago via Android

Well you dont know the stress is to be perfect. it is put on us to be skinny, a perfect slim figure with full breasts and a butt. Everyone is clawing to be excepted

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Apep: 6 months ago via iPhone

As they have been for generations. The difference is that we didn't need to take razor blades to ourselves to cope. Pressure and expectation are nothing new. Bleeding yourself out and leaving scars all over your arms and body that you're going to look at in disgust once you're a mature woman with her own kids (who you'll have to explain them to) is not going to help.

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joeblo89: 6 months ago

you need to leav here alone she is beutiful just the way she is

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Brooklyn19: 6 months ago

Well (and don't get mad i'm just giving you an answer) usually cutting is sometimes to get attention. I'm NOT saying thats what you and your friend are doing. I'm just saying thats usually the first thing that comes to someones mind. The second is fear. They don't know what to do so people put up a while and make everything negative.
If it makes you so mad then don't hang out with them.
Honestly can you even call them friends? If i saw a friend cutting themself i would be asking them why there trying to destroy there bodys and figure out why there so depressed. I would NEVER judge them unless it was a scheme for attention which a lot of people do now.
Find different friends to hang out with. You don't need people treating you badly.

I really hope I didn't offend you in any way.

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Brooklyn19: 6 months ago

sorry i meant * put up a wall.

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Rainbow_Puke: 6 months ago via Android

Cutting is to forget about the emotional pain and replace it with physical.

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Brooklyn19: 6 months ago

For some it is.
I've known people who do it just for the attention.

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Apep: 6 months ago via iPhone

Ten years ago "cutting" didn't even exist. All of a sudden every girl under 18 does it. This isn't an epic plague that's all of a sudden sweeping adolescents across the scene world, it's no more a genuine mental issue than "swagg" is a genuine word. It's attention seeking and peer imitation.

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Rainbow_Puke: 6 months ago via Android

Well thats because you dont know the pressure. And "Ten Years ago" People werent dieing to be excepted and not every girl under 18 cuts. Males and Adults everywhere does this.

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Apep: 6 months ago via iPhone

Really? You think people didn't want to be accepted ten years ago? People have been wanting to be accepted as long as there were groups to be accepted into. Gladiators wanted to be accepted by the Romans, merchant Japanese wanted to become samurai. Gen Z is not the first group to want to feel appreciated.

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Brooklyn19: 6 months ago

Good point Apep.

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dahjah: 6 months ago

WELL, just dont talk to them,, just ignore them and move on with your life

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blugoo2: 6 months ago

By judging you they are just giving the attention your trying to seek, so whats the problem?

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fmmp2000: 6 months ago

Judgement is in human nature, It just happens

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joeblo89: 6 months ago

because they have a low self asteam about thim self already so they shy away from that by picking on other people

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Guitarfreak2012: 6 months ago

They probably just don't understand what you are going through right now. The bad thing on their part is that their not being supportive. They should be there to help you not laugh at you. Talk to them let them know how you have been feeling . They need to listen. If not than I don't consider that a true friend.

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