How do I get my husband to be in our marriage? He's lazy and doesnt want to help clean or cook. I feel he expects me to everything.
We get off work together and he goes to the couch as I start making dinner. He watches t.v while I clean up and do the dishes. When we wake up in the morning he watches t.v while I clean and doesnt offer to help. Once in awhile he'll help if I ask. Every time I ask though it never gets done. He tells me he's too tired to do anything because he worked all day but i feel he expects me to do everything even though I work as well. He stays up all night watching t.v and wants to sleep in before work while I get up early with our daughter and take care of her. I feel lonely every night when I go to bed by myself. Anytime I mention any of this or how I feel to him he says i'm blaming him for everything. I just ask him to help out more. How should I handle this? We constantly fight because I get mad he doesnt help and he gets mad because he says i bitch about everything. I feel like I need to do something to save our marriage but doing everything myself is taking a toll on me.