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Should I get my actions straight or should she understand?

I got in an argument with my girl now we haven't really talked for a couple of days. Shes upset b/c we went out for dinner and I kinda glanced up & down at the waitress unintentionally. It's something that I never do around her but idk what happened. Should she kinda understand that thats how guys are naturally or should I not argue about it and step up for what I did.

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I am not one of those women who get offended if my husband looks at another woman. Hell, I'll even say something if there is a pretty women near us. I also know who my husband is going home with. I am secure in who I am and in my marriage. With that being said I know I am the exception. All I can say is buy her some flowers and tell her how much she means to you. Now if this was an important dinner like an anniversary or something, then she should have been the only thing you should have been focused on.

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I agree completely.
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Your totally right.
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Right on!
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Hay buy her a rose and a chocolate bar to make up if that doesn't work tell her you love her and on Christmas go to her and give her something nice then she will know you love her and tell her you will NEVER do it again. ( then do it again) JK.

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Somewhat.
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Just step up to it. what if she was checking someone out on your date?

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Explain to her why bud, it doesn't mean anything, just more of impulsive, add in something cute like before I really got to know you I did the same, and also apologize

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You didn't stare for like a long time, right? You know to where she would be like "hello?"?
I would just say something to her and explain to her that it was nothing. We all get jealous sometimes...it happens.

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I agree, just own it and tell her your sorry. You didn't do it intentionally, but that could hurt anyone.

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Well u got caught... man up and tell her your sorry...and next time dont get caught...

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Tell her to grow some self esteem.

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You - are - smoked.

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You gotta tell her you're sorry & forget your side on this one. I agree with gator though, but don't make it worse like some of the others said & tell her to get self esteem. You could say all the reasons she's your girl & get her to laugh also.

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Well, since you got busted I'm sure your girl would be scared to go to the bathroom and leave you sitting alone. It's also hard for her to send you alone for groceries. So you've lost a little of her trust but you can regain it by stepping up. Yu really can't lie because she was looking right at you.....so do the right thing.

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I am very secure in my relationship with my husband, but it would still smack of disrespect if he oogled another woman. He knows this and doesn't oogle. I'm likegatorblu and will point out a pretty woman...however, oogling is not okay. Apologize, and don't do it again, it is kind of disrespectful.

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Step up ! She's jealous that makes girls feel like they aren't good enough and you have to look at other girls tell her your sorry

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Funny, i just told this to a woman the other day. I'll try to keep it short, but it's fact. A well known cop psychiatrist, spent many yrs putting witness's of crime under hypnosis to collect info, clues about perpetrators, that witness's didn't know or remember they held. What he discovered was, women collect far more detail about perps. than men did. Even when the perp was a female, women tended to pick up, remember and subconsciously noticed twice as much as men did.. When it came to men women scored even higher in description, often estimating sizes in clothing, width of shoulders, etc. men often couldn't tell or got the pant colour, style wrong, women were right on. Women picked up things in slight movement of men, partial tattoos, etc under a shirt, eye color, even the color of socks. So one day at work, after an accusation of looking at a waitress the night before. He thought about how he'd always noticed this about women, printed out a load proof and notes he once put together pondering this issue He took them home, told her to read them and told her that just because women did this sub consciously, did not absolve of any guilt, unless she wanted to use the insanity plea.

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