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Is it normal to get over someone you love when you just break up?

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Generally, it is not usual to get over someone you love when you just break up. However, it cannot be said that it is impossible since one could easily do this if you did not love the person so much or if you were already tired of tolerating the person. If you have decided to move on or the person has decided to do the same, then that is exactly what you should do.

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good advice, thank you.
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maybe you didn't really love that person. or maybe you've put up with so much from that person that you get more of a feeling of relief to be rid of him/her

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he moved on to another girl the day he broke up with me and i just didnt know how to feel because i felt confused to even talk to anyone. our 10 month was the other day and we broke up yesterday
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Girl, he sounds like he planned that pretty well....another girl the same day...jerk! I'm sure you are hurt and confused and certainly angry also. I think you will grieve a little more for the loss of the relationship once you get over the shock, confusion and anger. He may be nice and all, but he is also a Class A jerk and you should be glad to rid yourself of him. Concentrate on yourself and what makes you happy, the right one will come along when you least expect it.
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yeah but the thing is how will i ever know whos the right guy for me. i have a tendancy for falling for all of them. i just hate getting my heart broken all the time. and who goes and tells the person its over and kisses them and walks away?????????? like wtf?
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who does that...the loser you used to date. take each relationship SLOW, get to know the person inside before you give your heart away. I am 42 and still haven't met the right one, but I'm not giving up and you shoudn't either. be true to yourself, your beliefs and your values. Love you first. everything else is just icing!
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lol ok i will try. this is good advice. thank you, im only 16 years old lol.
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I figured you were very young...love always seems like the end of the world at that age, but it is not. You WILL love again.
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