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ive liked this guy for about 4 months but he's my best friend so i can't tell him. now, i just found out that he asked out my best friend...

my best friend is going to say 'no' she told me, but how do i possibly get him to like me? hes my best friend and i know that he used to like me, but i didn't like him ! :c . can y'all give me some hints of how to give him hints or how to get him to like me ? please ?

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You can't "get" him to like you. Why do people think they can manipulate a persons feelings??

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You can't force him to like you.
Just continue to be yourself.
Eventually he will see that you're the one who understands him.
Been there all along...
Eventually he will seeeeeeeee.
He belongs with yooouuuu.

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hey i am having this problem to all you have to do is be yourself. get to know him better and just relax

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well there really is no way to make someone like you. but half of the male brain is mainly about women so try to impress him or make him feel really calm and relaxed around you and if that doesnt work im sorry and please completely ignore this answer....... HOPE THIS HELPS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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I HAD THE SAME PROBLEM!!!!! okay just tell him. tell him not to ask her because you love him. tell him how you feel. i did it and it worked. the next month he was gaga for me lol

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If your best friend is going to say no anyway, ask her to drop him a hint.

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I have a similar problem,
I love my friend and at one point we dated but I wasn't mature enough for dating and kinda blew it.
She broke up with me, it was awkward for a few months an now were best friends. I always get over a girl when I get dumped or I break up with them, but it's been over a year and I still love her!
I asked her a while back if she liked me and she said ewe no you're my bro! So I don't see me even having a chance... :'c
What sux is we belong together! Literally were the perfect match!
And I swear I'd be the best bf for her! I literally have no feelings like that for anyone else!
Also I asked her best friend and I got a little confused, she said she cried over me when she dumped me, but if she did then why did she dump me? And why didn't she ask me out or flirt or hint when I became more mature??? Her friend just told me she may not admit it to you....
So my advice, just ask him out. If he says no, what's gonna happen?- nothing! Things might be awkward for awhile but if you two truly are best friends, you'll get over it believe me!

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i get how your ex was . i used to be in love with my ex . we were on and off about 4 times . i broke up with him 3 of the times because i thought it was better but it wasn't . i cried and he got over it . now we don't even talk . at least you guys talk :/
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Yea, I really want her back, I never will, but at least I get to see her beautiful smile and perfect face and her cute voice and were friends, and I at least get hugs from her :) <3
I would give anything to be with her forever though.
I think she's the one actually. As silly as it sounds it's true!
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