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Guitarfreak2012

Is this being a bad person ?

Okay so I just found out that I have been lied to by a certain person about everything . Does this make me a bad person by telling people she is a liar for what she did to me ? cause I'd be ruining her life.

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bradahh

Don't be vindictive. If someone asks you about what happened then be honest. But dont go around spouting off at the mouth about her.

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blonde_girl_swag

No it doesn't make you a bad person. If people ask,you can tell them the truth about what she did to you. But you shouldn't go around telling everyone:)

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true lol
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Ellipsical

Yes, it would make you a bad person to ruin someone's life just because they lied to you. What makes you so special, we all get lied to.

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Guitarfreak2012
Thanks I don't know what to do.
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No. You would be a bad person if you lied about that

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Thanks.
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bentheredunthat

Let it go. It makes you no better than her to behave badly. And doing so will feel terrible later. Revenge almost always backfires in some way. Also think about why she lied to you. Does she have problems - or have you shared her secrets & private issues with others? I caught a good friend lying about something they swore they weren't doing. It involved me & it hurt when I found out. Rather than damage the friendship further, confronting them, I let it go. But now I am no longer truthful with them, lying myself, & don't share so easily. Tough place to be.

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Guitarfreak2012
Yeah and it kinda sucks I think she just did it to get attention.
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bentheredunthat
Good insight. People who gossip about others are never short of crowd gathering to listen. :(
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Guitarfreak2012
Yeah I know I'm not gonna do it I still love her though.
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bentheredunthat
Glad, don't stop loving them. Hopefully she'll grow up a little bit & realize the mistake. We all screw up like this sometimes & learn from it, me included. :)
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Guitarfreak2012
Thanks. I just hope one day she will realize what she did was wrong.
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candybar

I think it makes you as bad as the other person. Be the better person and hold your head up high. People like that aren't worth it.

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Thanks.
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Yes it does, you know the truth and that's all that matters.

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don't be a jerk about it, just keep her out of your life. don't mention her, don't think of her, don't involve yourself with her at all.its not worth it.

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Guitarfreak2012
Thanks I feel a lot better.
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no because your telling someone about not lying

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You have every right to be frustated at them for teling lies to you when you told them nothing, but the damn truth about you and maybe even secrets that you exchanged back and forth to them and if they did it for attention then they just need to grow up and apologize for breaking your heart I think only a real jerk to do something like that to a true best friend deserves a kick in the butt, but you need to forgive and forget about them it may be hard to handle too considering how much you may of loved them, but just move on and don't worry about it cause what goes around comes around they will get their day when they too face maybe the same problem as you or worse and I am sorry to hear about this too hope you start to feel better....

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Guitarfreak2012
Thanks it really doesn't bother me that much. I feel a lot better. Thank you for helping me Cookie.
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You are welcome Guitar :)
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Not at all. Your human. We all are. You made a mistake. it's ok now.

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No. Just be honest. But try to forgive and forget. It's also best if you avoid the person. If someone asks you about that person, tell them the truth. So maybe they can be careful too.

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Thanks I'm not gonna do it we are just in a tough spot right now thank you.
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You're welcome. :)
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