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If a girl says to turn around because she is changing her clothes, am I suppose to sneak a peek?

This happens all the time in many ways, like when she is in another room, but the door is open and says, "I am changing my clothes" or when she is behind a screen or something. On TV, the guy always peeks. Is it natural for the guy and is he a wimp if he doesn't peek, or is he a gentleman? Maybe its a way that women use to find out if a man is interested.

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How often do you find yourself in a situation like this? And NO You aren't supposed to look . You're supposed to have enough respect for the girl to NOT look.

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personally ... every day.

of course, I removed the doors from the changing rooms, so ...
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clever....reminds me of the old guy that went down to his pond and found some girls skinny dipping.....told them he was just there to feed the gators. ;)
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Hahaha, I just cover one eye and tell them the other one is a glass eye.
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when she says turn around, she means turn around. Unless you both have a thing for each other, than it wouldn't bother to peek

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good answer
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thanks! lol I just read your bio!! I already know we could be great friends!! ahaha!
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no. if she doesn't want you to look then don't look. but if she leave the door open on purpose she's probably flirting with you and teasing you

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Be a gentleman and let the poor woman change her clothes in peace.

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If you want to sneak a peek, then do it but if you don't you will not be considered a wimp. You will be a gentleman.

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helixaqua

Ummm..yeah...I'd be the one peeking!..... Just telling the truth 8)

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me too
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and grin like a dog. lol
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No, im a guy and saying this, you dont look.

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no. you are not supposed to sneak a peak.

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If that was me, I would sneak more than a peek no matter what!

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I would have done a full 180 if I were you.

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I think it is a trust thing, don't take the cheap shot! That's what you get on TV, cheap shots for laughs. Let her have her privacy, and you will be rewarded for taking the more mature road.

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buttonz

No PEEKING!!!!

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helixaqua
Good evening!!! 8)
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Hey hi
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depends on how flirty you two are. if your both interested in eachother it can be playful flirting. don't make a creep if yourself

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what you do is take all of your clothes off and shake her shoulder until she turns around

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id say take a peek. i mean she should at least have enough respect for HERSELF not to take off her clothes in present company of a guy. id say take a peek. i mean youre a guy and youre straight; she shouldnt expect you not to take a peek. thats just wrong

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and apparently from what the women here are saying, in order to be a gentleman you have to be gay
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lol! :)
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lol. well id say go ahead and peek if she is freaking taking her clothes off or changing while your there. she wants you to take a peek. Although this would be disrespectful... i would say sneak a peek if u want to. lol.

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No you're not suppose to look but you're a guy so I'm sure u do anyways

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she is flirting with you, that's why she left the door open.:) Ahh, young love

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hell no, that just means she trusts him
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I don't know if you have dated a "playful" girl, but I have :)
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sure you have by playful you mean a dog
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no don't look

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Uh... don't look.

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Why did you ask? Dude let her have some privacy! Its called self- thinking. think about it yourself.

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No. You're not SUPPOSED to sneak a peek. And you shouldn't either.
But then you probably would anyway.

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look if she says im changing dont look and you are in the same room or she leaves the door open. then its on purpose yes you can give it a sneek peek

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think about if u were in her shoes.would u want her to peek?

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dont peek unless you have a thing together and she really doesnt care

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really i say it depends on the girl. some girls do that so guys will look and they will know they are interested and to make them want them more (i guess) i'm not like that so if it was me i wouldn't want you to look be cause it shows you respect me enough to do what i ask.

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Be a gentlemen

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it depends on what kind of relationship you have.It can been both.I think it is easier to understand what she means if you sence her tone.If she is annoyed she probably does not want to be disturbed.If she is being playful she might want you to sneak a peek

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if yall are dating, and she leaves the door open she probablys trying to tease or she wants you to. if yall are friends or not far in a relatiionship, she prob dont want you looking. girls are wierd sometimes lol :)

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It depends on the mind set of the person on that time..

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he a man

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hi
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im a girl and if i left the door open to change when a guy is there, it would be for a reason, and especially telling you tht shes changing. personally i wouldnt mind if it was a guy i like.

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That depends on how much respect you have for her, and whether she is a one night stand or someone you truly love. That is only my opinion however, I'm sure others may see it differently.

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I'm considered a stalker, but even I have respect for personal privacy.

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If you want the respect from the girl, and you really care about her, you would turn around !!

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dont look they are just trying to seduce u and see if u r interested
i say ur a gentleman if u dont look because u have manners and r showing them

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