1 year ago
Last edited at 5:37PM on 11/18/2012
Accept it and move on. Do you like everybody? Chances are you don't, and you cannot expect everyone to like you. What matters most is if you like yourself. Do you see yourself as a nice good person? If you do, well great! If someone else can't see that, that is their problem. We can't always control how other people feel about us. We can just be kind to people and that's all we can really do. Don't take it too personal, and don't waste your time thinking about it.
I grew up with many people not liking me and they did not have a viable reason (I'm a half breed native). It was confusing and had negative affects on my self esteem but I grew out of it and into myself. If someone does not like me and has an actual reason, I feel pretty good about that.
I don't really care.... I have people who love me and that's all I need!!!!! Besides I'm a pretty nice person, most of the time, so if they don't like me than they're usually not someone I want to spend time with anyway!!!! ;o) no time for crankies!!!!!
I just smile and continue to be nice to them until they decide they want to take it to another level of being mean then I step up and tell them what is what and if someone I know and am very close to I may cry about it cause I had to face this once from who I always thought would be there for me and be by my side, but truth is I did not fit their standards of friendship of wanting to do this and that and I guess did not like me for who and how I was so the friendship was broke off they walked away smiling and laughing while I stayed back crying and hurting inside from 7 years of friendship that went down the drain....
Well I try and see why they don't like me and then if you really want to be their friend, try and change how you act with them and if they still don't like it and are mean and rude to you, and arnt nice, then you shouldn't want to be their friend and find a better friend then they are