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My wife & I are going on a vacation to the beach, where most women swim t*pless. Will I feel weird for her to be t*pless around other guys?

She has been there before, as a single before we met. She is attractive. At first I was Ok with it and thought it would be fun, but now I'm not sure. Any guys had the experience? Women's opinions welcome too. Thanks

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RedRose

DONT DO IT! if you feel even slightly uncomfortble now, you probably will be unhappy there when you see whats going on. talk to her about it. i think its a bit strange she would want you around a bunch of other t*pless women....i suggest you find a different beach.

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And looking at other women t*peless is weird..!
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exactly!!
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Once you'r around a topless beach for day or two you'll realize most people don't even notice! Try, if you still feel uncomfy talk to her& see if she'll wear top to make YOU feel better. Honestly though, is no big deal.
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It is sad that people are descensitizing themselves like this.
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I wouldn't like it, but more so the fact that she was willing

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well, think it this way. other guys look at her, and im sure you will look at other girls. so, its equaled out

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but are either ok? are either the way ud wanna spend a vacation with ur spouse??
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I would personally not, but i mean, they obviously planned it.
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Is it a nude beach will guys have there junk out too. because thing might be bad if thats the situation. Guys will be jumping all over her. lets just pray that nude males in front of nude women will develope a brain in the next 24 hrs.

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People do not jump all over each other at a nude beach. It all about being free of clothes. It is not a sexual thing.
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no, its just topless
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It's called dignity. If your girl lacks it she will lack other traits. Also what would stop her from going topless around friends.

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Most of the places where people go topless it is so much a part of the culture people around don't even notice. Just relax and try to enjoy the moment.

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Well, I don't have to tell you that you don't own her, and men look at her now if she is attractive. It is her choice to be with you, you can't force it. If men look at her she should get to enjoy being a beauty. Men...

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I don't know if you will feel weird. I don't read the future.

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I've been to "clothing optional" beaches and after just a few minutes you realize people are there to enjoy themselves and the beach, not to see who's got what. I'd say go with the thought that you're wearing the Emperor's New Clothes and live a little!!

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Try it and find out!

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If your asking the question,, the answer is ... YES YOU WILL

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Going on vacation is O.K.but being T^p less is not necessary now or feel proud being a husband of world's beautiful girl.................................

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