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My love doesn't really like his brother. Is it okay for me to still talk to him?

He says his brother is mean and I'm curious as to whether or not his brother is mean or just mean to him. So, is it okay if I talk to him for a while to find out? I know I should trust my love and I do. But I'm still curious as to what he's like. Should I ask my love or talk to his brother to find out? Please help me! I want to find out what he's like without my love possibly getting upset about it. And I don't want him to worry about his brother hurting me either, so, please help.

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What makes you so curious about it I wonder? But also, why doesn't he want to tell you? The reason will probably just come out later. That's usually what happens with me anyways, lol. I know guys don't like to be hassled with the same question but if you haven't just flat out asked already I would do that first. I DO NOT suggest you talk to his brother behind his back. There are so many outcomes that could come about. But I assure you, none of them are good.

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If you have to talk to your boyfriend's brother behind his back, don't do it. If you can't base a relationship on trust and honesty, you have nothing. I get the curiosity factor, but if you can't outright tell your boyfriend that you wish to get to know his brother, don't do it.

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If your love is telling the truth, then maybe there's a reason why he dislikes his brother. You could give it a shot by talking to him and witness how he is yourself, but it's uneasy to know the real issue here. It all depends on you actually, as long as you know what you're doing and what consequences to expect. You can be nice with him, but know the boundaries. However, i suggest you to not talk to him. 'Curiosity killed the cat.'

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