It's just society that thinks its bad. Do whatever you need to do - if you are sad, cry! It's the most natural thing in the world, instead of pretending to be tough. because if you have to always go out of your way to look tough, it only highlights your inner insecurity. And emotions are what link people together, without them, the world would be a massive free-for-all, because no one would care. I've cried over a girl before, and I'm not shamed to admit it!
nope nat at all! now basically I'm a girl version of jerry springer combined with jeremy kyle... its ok to have feeling over somebody just like tell her you love her or just pretend your a secert admierer and give her love notes in lockers... usally works!! good luck though! :)