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What do you do when a boy just wants to be friends with benefits but he isnt serious with you?

he touches me but and tells me that im thick and cute

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If you want "sex" then go for it.
If you don't want sex tell him to stop. & that's not what you want.
I think it's wrong to have "friends with benefits" because you'll never hear from your "friend" until he wants "sex". I would tell him to go on with his self .

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i dnt want sex hes no gne even act like he asked for it but hes not ready to get with a real girl cuz he wants me 2 play and keep it on the down low
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well, you want to be friends with benefits? if yes, well, have fun. if not, then tell him how you feel

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i can have fun anywhere cuz he is serious with me and i wont let him play with my feelings
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i mean, how do you feel? if you dont want anything, but that, then just go for it :)
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If he doesn't want to be serious, then he never will be if you do the whole fwb thing. If you're fine with that, then great, but if you want something more then he needs to know it's all or nothing.

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i keep telling him if he doesnt tell me he loves me then i dnt feel like he is my type but he says fwb only but he still wants to talk to me and i dnt want to be fwb i want more than dat with him.... but i guess he doesnt knw that
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If fwb isn't enough for you then you need to put your foot down. If he doesn't want to be in a relationship then you can't really force him, but that's no reason to do something you're uncomfortable with. Trust me though, if you become fwb while wanting a relationship, you will feel very unfufilled.
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ikr i was told that and i am not going to play with him if thats what he wants
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Good. Stand your ground :)
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thx
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agreed... on all. unfulfilled will be the end result
best
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If a guy wants to be friends with benefits, he is not a friend.....and he certainly is not entitled to any benefits (not meaning that anyone is entitled to benefits...there is no entitlement to a woman's virtue.)

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i can tell that as i get details from his text
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If he is someone you just want to have sex with, then have sex with him as long as you are on some form of birth control and use a condom to protect against some (but not all) STDs.
If you are interested in him for a relationship, be forewarned that he already thinks you are the kind of girl that will let a guy touch her butt and would be interested in a purely sexual relationship.

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and i dnt want sex i can get that from anywhere i just want a real relationship but he doesnt so i dnt think hes for me
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I think you are making the correct assessment. (:
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thx
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Think more highly of yourself and dont give him more of you when he only wants to give you less of him..you can find a boy who wants to give you all of him.

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i think very hiogh of myself and i am not going for that fwb stuff cuz im better than dat
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There you go, thats very good of you!
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Walk away, you'll wind up happier

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thats what i think im gonna do cux i dnt hav time to play no games
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ellemacgregor
Atta girl
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lmao
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or run
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lol
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you say "bye bye !"

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i am going to say that 4real
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MIZZ...Reading your comments to other's answers, I think you have made the right decision. In fact, I think you already made that decision before you came here to Ask....you just needed someone to agree with you....and plenty did.
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Sounds like you're about to be used, but only if you allow it. Protect yourself...

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i knw and i dnt wanna do dat
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