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my bf is too aggressive ...he violated me a lot ....:(( but I still love him a lot....am I mad ?

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he violated you + you love him a lot = you're unconsciously obsessed with him. I suggest you to don't be in a relationship like that because there is a possibility that things could get worse.

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I'm just simply in love with him....eventhough I know he is definitely not a good person ...:( .... there is only one good thing that he is kind from his heart....but he never could control his anger ...he is too easy to lose his temper... is there anyway to help him become less aggressive ?

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try talking to him about his aggressive ways. He maybe takes things to seriously and at heart. Has he always been aggressive ever since you met him? Other reasons why he might be aggressive are bcuz he might be insecure or he thinks that is what it's like to be a man. His aggressive behaviour could also be link with something that happened at home (in the past).
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i think ur a little love-mad.

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do u think its ok to keep going ?
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tell him to be less agresive
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thousands of times ... he s ok when he is too kind when he is happy...but when he s angry everything turns upside-down
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You should be if you aren't, you shouldn't love someone if they make you unhappy for their own selfish reasons

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yes. he s selfish. :( but I still can't take him out of my mind. I think I'm really mad T.T ...
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Try telling him how much it bothers you?
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I doesn't bother me ...it just makes me sad :(
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Its the same thing, you've got to talk to your boyfriend about it
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Your a nut to stay with no offense

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Break up with him or just tell him how you feel

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there is no way that I could possibly break up with him...
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Don't do that
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You could sneak away!
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It's always to hard to tell if you love him from the heart or from the mind, but once you figure it out..... And think to yourself is this what I want ?

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ur right...I really love him from my heart. but this is not what i want. I'm so stuck...:(
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Well think about it
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I hv been thinking a lot...would u gv me any advise please ?:(
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You are hot
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Don't read that that was my friend sorry but I can't help:(
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+.+...Wth ? no worries :)
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Fine I'll think of on answer by noon see u later
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Ok I can't answer it but here's my opinion . If you really love him make him feel like he deserves you because ur funny,cute,and beautiful
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:)... thanks a lot Alanm1000. ur so nice..
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Aw just helping
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