I'm the petitioner and they won't dismiss it, so what if I just disappear?
Being agoraphobic I didn't realize what I was getting into when I petitioned for child support. Now the state is involved. Although hiring an attorney to appear on my behalf might be an option, I don't think that it'd be worth it. The father wants free rights to the children, but I have tons of proof that he is unfit as a parent. The issue is my lack of personal support and guidance as well as my social phobia and agoraphobia inferring with my ability to present the evidence to the court. He is very social and dependent on others so he has a lot of support and guidance, but I'm the one with proof. In a desperate attempt to get out of this mess, I told the court that he is not the father even though he is. Now we are just waiting on the results.