I check out other guys when I'm in a relationship. Can I help it? No. It's just a normal and common thing everyone does. What are you gonna do? Tell your boyfriend that he can't check out other girls, because you don't trust him? That will be considered as being a control-freak, and in my own opinion... no one wants a control-freak. Plus, if you told your boyfriend that he couldn't check out other girls, and you checked out other guys, then that wouldn't be fair at all. If you have trust issues, then why are you in a relationship? You have to have love, trust, and honesty in a relationship, or else the relationship won't last long at all.
Because we're married, not DEAD. It's human nature for a male to look at an attractive female, it's a million years of evolution so there's nothing to be upset about. You look at other men too, maybe you don't stare but being married doesn't mean all of a sudden every other guy on the planet is now ugly.
Anybody overly bothered by it must not be very secure in their marriage. People are attracted to people. My wife and I actually point them out to each other "Hey look at that one over there, I bet you like him." "Check HER out, I bet you think she's hot." It's a fun game for people ate happily married, give it a try some day.
Maybe...because their looking for someone that just might notice them, it means that your wanting so much attention from him that he has to maybe find someone else to give him some attention back..., Ok how much attention do you give or more like how do you expect from him...? that's why
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If you think just because someone is in a committed relationship that they cease to be human .. you're sadly mistaken. There is nothing wrong with looking or even admiring .. as long as they look, but don't touch, all is well in the world.
Sad part of it is, at least it seems, most of this younger generation gets involved with what they 'claim' to be a committed relationship like a girlfriend/boyfriend .. but, really are far too young, or not emotionally prepared to realistically commit.
It seems young people prefer to hook up for the sake of appearances NOT because they actually care about each other, or that they are suited to each other. It really is very shallow and short lived .. Don't confuse this shallow and temporary interest with a realistic romantic relationship or connection .. THIS is a matter of 'fitting in'.
Someone who is in such a shallow, and I use the term loosley .. 'relationship' .. is bound to have a roving eye .. not just because they are enjoying the view, but because they are looking to move on to something new.
And may no mistake .. this roving eye, does not pertain to only one gender.
hmm...i can smell jealousy....not good for any relationship. Its quite natural...man love to discover ...new lands...new things...don't get upset on such a little thing...who does not like beauty? every one likes...
It is normal to look at other people. It shows a complete lack of respect for you and total lack of class if he is checking out other people while with you. He seems to be pretty immature if he is doing that. Everyone looks.... but you shouldnt ogle someone when with your partner unless your partner is hip to the same thing. Just tasteless to do that otherwise.
It's totally natural, us girls do it too, besides, who wants someone that no one else would want? Think about it. There's absolutely nothing wrong with looking, as long as there's no touching or anything else along those lines.
It's a natural thing but if they are flirting with a random girl you've never seen or talked too its really because they think that girl is better looking that there gf and want to get to know her more !