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My ex got dumped by her rebound guy after 1.5 months how do I get back in the picture and have her develop feelings for me again?

I dated her for about 5 months, she was crazy about me at first but lost her emotional connection and broke up with me, I guess due to the routine lifestyle and also she was in a long term relationship with a guy that had left her weeks before the wedding, she never got closure. This was 2 years before we met, but she still had anger inside. I did NC for a couple a weeks, then she contacted me to see how I was and in the conversation she said she had started dating someone new. I freaked out at first and told her off ( i know it was wrong) called her the next day and apologized for reacting that way and wished them all the best, after about a month I texted her to see how she was and she said the guy she was seeing had broken up with her and her ego had taken a hit. So i asked to meet, she said yes and we talked and I tried to be a listening ear, did not tell her that I wanted her back or that I was interested. So now I want to know if there is a way for me to reignite the spark, once she's over the rejection and get her back.

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(heavy sigh)... and it's not even my life. Sounds like too much drama, chico. Ya know, sometimes (believe it or not) it's easier to just let it go. Trust me here.
She might take you back, but it ain't gonna work anyhow. Just more heartbreak. If she really loved you, she'd be with you. A girl's take.
Sorry.

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THAT was right-on. Now I'm off to hang myself!!!
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Raleigh, you do good at this, t's up for you, in many ways more than one !!! :~)
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raleigh, you did good!
Great advice...big ol beep of the horns for ya!
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Hey you!! Go weigh in on the police bully question.
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Anyone I kno that answered it? Easier to find that way.
And.. HI BUBS! : )
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Nevermind, I know what you're talking about... possible crank phone call. Will go check out.
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Already answered that one! Said that I thought it coulda been a prank. What's up, Missy? You trying to tell me somethin' here?
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Dude, check yer dangly-bits, and re-watch the Stuart Smalley video collection that I know you have. http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stuart_Smalley

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Tee hee hee! Love that dangly bits line... And good advice, as usual!
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It is good not to get into a relation first. Search your feelings and give yourself time to heal so that you do not have another rebound. During this time you may be talking to your ex as a friend. Do not speak of your feelings, treat her and win her trust slowly. Within that time you will know how the girl is and if she feels something for you.

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