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Is it weird to have a girlfriend that is 11 and you are 15

i am 15 and my girlfriend is 11 turnning 12 in january is that weird

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It's not weird, it's just wrong. If you were both adults then that's fine, but you're both minors. She is still a child, she is not a teenager yet. She most likely hasn't hit puberty yet or is only at the beginning stages. You are a teenage boy. You're closer to being 18 then being the same age as her. You've already hit puberty, and knowing how guys who are going through puberty can get, they should not at all be with a young girl. A four year age difference is too much of a gap for minors. In my opinion, an age gap of 3 to 2 years is appropriate.

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why do you say that we both like each other alot and i realy love her no lie
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It's wrong. Do your parents even know?
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yes they are ok with it and so is her parents
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Dude no offense, but do you even know what actual love is??
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yes i do and StLDropShotz even thinks that it is not that weird so why do you huh
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It's puppy love. She is eleven, at that age being able to grasp the concept of love is highly unlikely.
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well idc i know that she loves me and that is all that matters
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Well just as long as you KNOW she loves you and everything is ok with everyone then go ahead..
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well thank you for that
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Umm buddy that's not dating, and yes it's kinda weird.

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why do you say that we both like each other alot and i realy love her no lie
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You may like each other but that's not love that's you think it is but that's an adolescent phase you'll pass through in time. And when it does you'll realize how stupid you were for thinking so.
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no i wont because we both love each other so much that we wont cheat on each other and we will be together for ever
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Uh huh good luck with that theory buddy.
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it is true
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by the way you are not that smart
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How do you figure? I know a hell of a lot more then you so how do you figure that one?
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it kind of is...

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why do you say that we both like each other alot and i realy love her no lie
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if you love her i get that, but its the age. i myself dont think its weird.(srry should have put that in the answer), but society just thinks that it isnt right. im not really sure why.
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o thats ok
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No. If other people think it is, it's only because they are single. Just let it roll off your back if other people think that it is weird. That's kinda how I was, except the girl wasn't a girlfriend. She's in 6th grade now, and I'm a freshmen, but it was last year. People kept bothering me about it so much and I let it get to me when I shouldn't have. But no. It's not wierd.

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ok thankyou for the advice and i wont i am just trying to see what people say/ think about it
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I don't say that cause I'm single, I say that cause when I date someone I know their between a year or two younger or older then me if not then my age.
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o ok well you still think that that is ok
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It's ok for me because I'm 17, my girlfriend is 17, we don't love each other but we care for each other as though we did.
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can you help me out these pepople are being jerks about it
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thatoneguy97

umm that's almost like me dating one of my little sisters friends

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why do you say that
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thatoneguy97
well I'm 15 and my sister is 10 and has friends that are 11
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o ok well do you think it is wrong the
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it's not wrong if you love her
Just be careful
Ik when I was 11 I had a 17 year old bf so no it's not wrong to me but just don't hurt her or anything

And if others don't get the love you 2 have then don't worry (they probably don't get it)

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ok well thank you for your comment and dont worry i wont because if i did then her parents would kill me
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Yes, that is weird. There is a big difference between people of those ages. You are almost adult, but she is still just entering adolescence. I'm surprised your parents allow it.

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my parents dont realy care what i do
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When I was 11 I dated a 18 year old its basically the same thing I'm 14 almost 15 and yes I'm in a relationship and y boyfriend is 15 he turned 15 not long before we got together.
I'm not trying to be mean or anything but honesty it is weird it's like dating a younger sibling. At 11 you really don't know how a real relationship works and you won't realize it till your my age..

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why do you say that
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Hell no! Thats just weird.

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why do you say that
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Your 15? Shes 11, i mean the age difference is 4 years. I mean i could see if you 2 were adults but shes 11 she is in what elementary school or just getting out. & your a sophmore im guessing? Im 15 also, i wouldnt want to go tell my people like "yo i got my 11 year old girlfriend. They will clown me for days...Dont you like girls with asses & Tittys? -_-
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