It's never your fault (unless you literally set out to ruin it on purpose). A marriage is between two people only, and if anything breaks it up, it is a reflection on the two people involved and their relationship, not anyone else.
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Last edited at 7:38PM on 11/26/2012
It's not your fault. KNOW That. Sometimes people make mistakes when they pick who to marry. How can a misjudgment before you were born be your fault? Just remember to choose carefully who you marry so your kids won't go through this too. I'm sorry this is happening to you and if you want to talk I'm here.
Sorry you are having a tough time. You are not choosing this divorce. They are. Talk to an adult who can guide you. Feedback from people who have lived it can help too. My folks split. I get it. It hurts. Talk in one of my Q&A's anytime. Just remember, you did not cause your parents to split.
You didn't do anything. I know it can feel that way, but a marriage is between two adults. Sometimes they grow in different directions and fall out of love. I am sorry you are caught in the middle of it. It isn't fair, and it hurts. Just talk to each one of them separately and let them know you love them and how you feel. I am sure they will both tell you that they love you too. Hang in there!