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CGP4ever: 6 months ago | Last edited at 7:30PM on 11/26/2012

What did i do

my parents are getting a divorce, and i feel like it was my fault,

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Bemused: 6 months ago

It's never your fault (unless you literally set out to ruin it on purpose). A marriage is between two people only, and if anything breaks it up, it is a reflection on the two people involved and their relationship, not anyone else.

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christoptully: 6 months ago | Last edited at 7:37PM on 11/26/2012

doubt it's your fault !!! You can't blame your self when things like this happen its not your fault I'm sure both your parents love you alot

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TheArchAngel: 6 months ago

How would I be able to answer this? Honestly, if you read this question, how would YOU be able to answer this?

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CGP4ever: 6 months ago

sorry

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TheArchAngel: 6 months ago

Nononono, seriously. Try, how would you answer this?

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CGP4ever: 6 months ago

i don't know that's why i asked it

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Robloxdude1: 6 months ago

just tell them why and they will talk to you

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laxgirlll: 6 months ago

I doubt it's your fault !!! You can't blame your self when things like this happen its not your fault I'm sure both your parents love you alot

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CGP4ever: 6 months ago

thanks

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twiggygirl202: 6 months ago

dont ever tell yourself its your fault cause im sure its not

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alekseystrigoi: 6 months ago via iPhone

Never think that. Ever. That's the biggest mistake. You weren't married to your parents, and it takes two (husband and wife) to ruin it.

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SouthernBoy: 6 months ago | Last edited at 7:38PM on 11/26/2012

It's not your fault. KNOW That. Sometimes people make mistakes when they pick who to marry. How can a misjudgment before you were born be your fault? Just remember to choose carefully who you marry so your kids won't go through this too. I'm sorry this is happening to you and if you want to talk I'm here.

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Happy2BeHere2: 6 months ago

Perfect.

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thatcrazygirl: 6 months ago via iPhone

NO WAY!!! What the.... If you know that you didn't do anything then don't get fussed over about it.

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Happy2BeHere2: 6 months ago | Last edited at 7:41PM on 11/26/2012

Sorry you are having a tough time. You are not choosing this divorce. They are. Talk to an adult who can guide you. Feedback from people who have lived it can help too. My folks split. I get it. It hurts. Talk in one of my Q&A's anytime. Just remember, you did not cause your parents to split.

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HKArmy: 6 months ago via iPhone

It's not your fault. Not at all. I was 5 when my divorced and I've grown up thinking it was my fault. But it's not. U are not to blame for your parents divorce. Not one but.

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CGP4ever: 5 months ago

thanks

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gatorblu: 6 months ago

You didn't do anything. I know it can feel that way, but a marriage is between two adults. Sometimes they grow in different directions and fall out of love. I am sorry you are caught in the middle of it. It isn't fair, and it hurts. Just talk to each one of them separately and let them know you love them and how you feel. I am sure they will both tell you that they love you too. Hang in there!

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JohnJohn1962: 6 months ago via Android

hey cheer up I understand what you're going through hi divorce my wife after 25 years this May I did tell my son it was not his fault just me his mother just grew apart . I hope you feel better soon.

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Avavlon241: 6 months ago

No is okay it's not your fault it's just pressure of the moment

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usmc1232: 5 months ago

its not your fault

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usmc1232: 5 months ago

email me talk 2 u more

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