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DJRob120: 6 months ago

Do I Need To Change Who I Am

Because I don't have a girlfriend and my own father doesn't love me. I think that nobody likes me and I just want to end it all. (crying)

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simplymelchie: 6 months ago

it's better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for who you're not

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DJRob120: 6 months ago

Your right but its so hard to be myself when no one likes my presence

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mikes703: 6 months ago

WOW Simply....Awesome Answer...Love it...:)

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simplymelchie: 6 months ago

if you want someone to love you, learn to love yourself first :)

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DJRob120: 6 months ago

I do but no one else does besides my family

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DJRob120: 6 months ago

And friends

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simplymelchie: 6 months ago

thanks Mikes.. I love you too.. oopps Kidding hahahh :D

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punkhazardz: 6 months ago

nah... she wasn't :P

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mikes703: 6 months ago

hahahah simplymelchie...ok then I love you also...lol..but truthfully your answer was Awesome...got to love it...:D

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DJRob120: 6 months ago

Yeah your right.

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simplymelchie: 6 months ago

what do mean "she wasnt"PUNK??

well Rob, changing isn't a good idea. If you think you didn't do any bad thing then stay the same. People who really care would always love you for who you are. And I don't know anything about your family issues but fathers should always love their children :) Maybe he does :)

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DJRob120: 6 months ago

Thanks

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simplymelchie: 6 months ago

welcome :)

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lotto649: 6 months ago | Last edited at 12:11PM on 11/27/2012

Hey come on dude! Don't think like that! You said you make beats? That's awesome!!

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DJRob120: 6 months ago

Thanks everyone and I feel a little bit better

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That1BadNovelist: 6 months ago

No. Just because you don't have a girlfriend or your father doesn't like you. Doesn't mean you have to change yourself. Just take some time to think. Try something like yoga for stress. Or breathing in & out.

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johnca33: 6 months ago

i like your answer

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Syntha: 6 months ago via Android | Last edited at 12:14PM on 11/27/2012

Never change who you are...eventually someone will come along and make you happy...just a matter of time..

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Reputed: 6 months ago

Look on the bright side of things, I answered your question on ask.com. ^o^

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knichols: 6 months ago

no you dont..and if anybody dont like you than its their problem not yours.

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sasquatch7575: 6 months ago

Hang in there my friend. Don't end it all because I am certain that any day above ground sure beats the heck outta the rest of your long life below ground. Start expressing yourself on paper-- write. Reach out to loved ones.
<hugs>

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whatisnext: 6 months ago

Hi Sas, good advice, journaling has been a life saver for me. How was your Thanksgiving?

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johnca33: 6 months ago

no you dont like what That1BadNovelist sed

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sasquatch7575: 6 months ago

why not? it's great advice

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johnca33: 6 months ago

no i ment what she sed was good

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johnca33: 6 months ago

you gave a good one to

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sasquatch7575: 6 months ago

OH! sorry-- I get it;)

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johnca33: 6 months ago

lol :)

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buttonz: 6 months ago

No

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Phlorence_602: 6 months ago | Last edited at 12:15PM on 11/27/2012

Don´t even think of it.....
Keep being who you are, do not let anyone decide for you...
If they do not like who you are, then they do not deserve you.
Be yourself...we came to this world alone....we did not come with anyone....just be yourself....your true friends and family, are yet to come to your life .

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Tynaa: 6 months ago

Hey, hey, don't change who you are because being who you are is just you. Girlfriend? don't worry don't be rush there is a right time for it you'll see it will just come out of nowhere so... Don't say that your father doesn't love you because all parents is always love their children no matter what...

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DJRob120: 6 months ago

But my dad doesn't talk to me as often as he used to and he always be with my siblings instead of me and he gives them more attention.

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Tynaa: 6 months ago

It doesn't mean that he doesn't love you:) Well talk to him more often do something that what really the 2 of you have in common.

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Savorydave: 6 months ago via iPhone | Last edited at 12:18PM on 11/27/2012

Maybe you DO need to change something about yourself. You might be a bit too dramatic. No girlfriend, and Dad doesn't seem real chummy or close? Welcome to your teenage years.

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Guitarfreak2012: 6 months ago

No I need to change who I am.

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punkhazardz: 6 months ago

EVERYONE changes eventually.

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oreoduckie : 6 months ago via iPhone

Aww Guitar what happened?!?! Last I saw you were so happy!!!

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Guitarfreak2012: 6 months ago

Ha ,ha well it's a really long story and I don't wanna talk about it but thanks guys.

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oreoduckie : 6 months ago

Oh okay well I hope it gets better for you.

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oreoduckie : 6 months ago via iPhone

Just be yourself all of these people came to your question and telling you that you are a great person (well a few are just being mean but ignore them) I'm sure that you are a great and fun-loving person and if you keep being like that you will feel better about yourself. It'll all work out in the end trust me :)

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number1partygirl: 6 months ago

why would you think that nobody likes or that dad doesnt love you your his kid hes suppose to love you no matter what

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Pumpkin_Forever: 6 months ago

Don't think like that... People do care... If u need a friend I'm here for u.. Need to talk I'm here... Ps: Don't kill ur self people really do care about u

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just_saying: 6 months ago via Android

It gets pretty discouraging at times, doesn't it? If you start changing yourself to be acceptable to others, you will find yourself always changing. Your new self might not be acceptable to your Mom, so you change. That might not work for your best friend, so you change. See what I mean? The best thing is to learn to like yourself. One person on this site advises people to do one nice thing for someone else every day and write it down. When you're feeling down, read the list. (Thanks, Koi!) By the way, my dad ignored me and was there for my siblings. Even as an adult, I'd call and schedule a visit. I would show up at his house at the agreed time and he'd be on the lake fishing. He passed away without changing that attitude. It hurts like crazy but I couldn't change it. Just try your best, allow yourself to feel sad for a bit, and then get ready! Who knows what is just around the corner for you?

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emilypoet25: 5 months ago

NEVER change who you are. Ever.

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manlyman64: 5 months ago

1.Don't change who you are just find a friend and then mabey ask her out
2.Just don't be alone

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