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Why does my brother hate me?

and DON'T say that that's what brothers do! He RUINED MY LIFE! he ruined my only chance with my crush, and my parents think we need to "talk" WHICH I HATE DOING!!! I need some support here :c

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apparently he has no sense of relationships and needs to shape himself up... unless he might be having problems of his own and taking it out on you... maybe he should talk to a guidance counselor or something.

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You need to talk. If you don't want to do it face-to-face, text. This is life buddy, life = obstacles to overcome. This is just one of those, get to it or live in this hatred for your brother. :D If he ends up really hating your guts, go ruin his love life. Teehee.

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i hate talking to my parents to it sucks so bad.howd he ruin your chance with your crush and better yet y. thats messed up

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He hacked my Skype and said bad things :c
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what. thats just horrible to do to someone.
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I know :( but I have no proof what he did
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wow so now you cant even tell your parents because they wont believe you huh. man id be pissed to but just take some deep breaths and calm down. then you should confront him about but dont start yelling or anything and if he starts getting loud with you just be like im not trying to argue or fight with you i just want to talk and thats it after you talk to him about it and figure out why he did it youre done.you could maybe do a little sumtin sumtin for revenge though. :]
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First, you need to think about something other than your brother for z while, calm down, then talk to your brother. As for hating your brother, one incident is far from convincing he actually hates you. Mine dropped a good sized rock on my head, and six months later I shot him in the family jewels with my BB gun. We definitely love each other.

After you work it out with your brother, you seek to make stronger impression on your crush. Life will go on.

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Silver, I know you have trouble being happy, and I'm not saying that to be mean, I've just noticed that in some of your comments, but you could make a start by getting closer with your family. If it is meant for you and your crush to get together, no one, especially not your brother, could get in your way. If it meant to be, it will work out. If not, there's something better waiting for you. Try to get along with your brother, family is really important, and as an adult you'll regret it if you don't have a relationship with your brother. My sister is my best friend, and we fought like cats and dogs growing up, but she's always there for me, and I am there for her. Suck it up and force yourself to listen and to communicate honestly and kindly. Anger only clouds your thinking.

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I try to be nice but HE HATES ME! I don't know why! It feels like no one does, when he doesn't! He's older then me, I need his help but I never get it!
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Do you think that's maybe why your parents want you two to talk? Think of it from his point of view, he had it all until your little face popped into the picture, then he had to share everything with a little person he didn't ask for and didn't particularly want around. That's his experience, respect it, talk to him honestly, listen as much as you talk.
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No... We used to get along so well... I don't know what happened... When try to think of it the happiness literally feels like it's falling in a dark hole, never to be seen again
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Just talk to him, he might not even know himself, or maybe you're interpreting his actions incorrectly. You have to try or nothing will change.
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I've tried, he just yells at me and calls a a b!tch
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But you said your parents want you to talk, so ask them to help. It's worth the effort.
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They don't understand how I feel, they tell me I'm bored, I don't get that :|
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He's your brother im shore he gave your crush a good beatening...hehe :)

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It's not funny :c
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What else did he do'' just ruined your chance..
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He hacked my Skype
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Is that all?
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And told my crush this: "you know I used to love you, but you a **** piece of ******* **** you *****!!! Go pierce your ******* lungs you ****!" I can't go on
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(On MY Skype account, so I have no proof he did it :c)
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So how do you know its him?
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Did you actually see him hacking into your page
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Yea, I looked in his room, he was on it
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