Is my boyfriend out of line by telling me I disgust him because I went out with a black guy over 10 years before we even met?
14 years ago (8 years prior to my boyfriend and I even meeting) I worked with and had a brief affair with a black man. I made the mistake when I first met my current boyfriend (when we were just friends) of mentioning it in a relevent conversation. Now, over 6 years into our relationship and living together for over a year, he brings it up on a regular basis. Saying I disgust him, and he thinks about it every time we have sex. Also blaming it all on "how he was raised". I was raised with the same racist BS, but discovered in my teens that some belief systems don't work in this day and age. Not that racism works ever.