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How to make the first move on a guy ?

There's a guy I like and my guy friend told me to make a move by talking to the guy but i.d.k know what to say!

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Here is that site above:
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Break the ice. Dating can be a nerve-wracking experience so allow your date to relax by setting the appropriate atmosphere. Engage your date in interesting conversation to break any silence and relieve nervous tension. Consider playing music to help set the desired mood. The goal is to make your date feel as comfortable as possible while you plan your next move.
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Build your confidence. You must be confident in order to make the first move on a date. Judge your date?s reactions to your witty jokes and playful banter. As your date begins to ease into the moment, take pride in your ability to be an engaging host or hostess. Accept any compliments you?re given to help boost your own ego. Besides, you must have something desirable or you wouldn?t be on the date in the first place.
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Test the waters. Attempt to make physical contact with your date. Do things like brushing up against them while you?re reaching for the remote or engaging them in a playful game of tag. Use your date?s reaction to pick your next move. Outright disgust should be taken as a sign to immediately adjust your approach while flirtatious signals should encourage you to continue with your mission.
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Make your move. Your actions should be deliberate and unmistakable. This is not the time to second guess your results or lose confidence in yourself or your abilities. Lean in close to your date and let them know your desires. Choose between verbal and nonverbal communication to make your point known. For example, grab your date?s hand as you pucker up for that perfect kiss.
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Accept the results. Your date is entitled to their own reaction to your move making. If you are successful, enjoy the moment and go with the flow of the situation. Don?t take it too personally if your advances are unreturned. No matter the result, you had the courage to make the first move.
Tips & Warnings
Make sure your breath is fresh before making the first move on a date.
Never pressure your date into doing things that make them feel uncomfortable.

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I only see him at school though............
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In order to learn the art of making the first move on a guy you need to visit http://www.ehow.com/how_4475029_make-first-move-date.html. They have detailed step by step instructions on how to manage to make the progress you desire.

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I can't go on that website because I got parental controls on my computer
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Go on your apple device
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I don't own anything by apple
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that will go on the internet
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just ask him if he wants to play truth or dare and if he says truth ask if he likes you and then if he says yes then ask if he wants to go out on a date sometime

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lol i dont talk to him though because he hangs out with people that hate mefor no reason
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How should I talk to him like what should I say before the truth or dare thing ?
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well just go up to him ignore his friends and just forget about the truth or dare and ask to talk to him alone and then if he leaves his friends to talk to you then he probably likes you but ask if he likes you anyways
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lol ok
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I went on the site suggested above for you, and am pasting the first part here:
1. Break the ice. Dating can be a nerve-wracking experience so allow your date to relax by setting the appropriate atmosphere. Engage your date in interesting conversation to break any silence and relieve nervous tension. Consider playing music to help set the desired mood. The goal is to make your date feel as comfortable as possible while you plan your next move.

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Build your confidence. You must be confident in order to make the first move on a date. Judge your date’s reactions to your witty jokes and playful banter. As your date begins to ease into the moment, take pride in your ability to be an engaging host or hostess. Accept any compliments you’re given to help boost your own ego. Besides, you must have something desirable or you wouldn’t be on the date in the first place.
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3.Test the waters. Attempt to make physical contact with your date. Do things like brushing up against them while you’re reaching for the remote or engaging them in a playful game of tag. Use your date’s reaction to pick your next move. Outright disgust should be taken as a sign to immediately adjust your approach while flirtatious signals should encourage you to continue with your mission.
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4.Make your move. Your actions should be deliberate and unmistakable. This is not the time to second guess your results or lose confidence in yourself or your abilities. Lean in close to your date and let them know your desires. Choose between verbal and nonverbal communication to make your point known. For example, grab your date’s hand as you pucker up for that perfect kiss.
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5 Accept the results. Your date is entitled to their own reaction to your move making. If you are successful, enjoy the moment and go with the flow of the situation. Don’t take it too personally if your advances are unreturned. No matter the result, you had the courage to make the first move.
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lol thx 4 putting it up there and I only c him at school he doesn't rid my bus and I'm in middle school so I can't go on a date or take a guy home or go to his home
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If you work or are in close contact with the person I say just start by small talking and if that person seems into the conversation then I would ask if they are single and if they say no then I would ask them if they wanted to go out for a bite to eat or drink? good luck! if you don't ask you won't know.

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lol thx
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The first move starts with a conversation, just be yourself and let nature take its course. Good luck and have fun.

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lol thx .
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What should I say to him because every time he looks at me I blush and smile
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Ask him on a date to a place like the movies or even dinner. Sit right next to each other and lean right in and kiss.

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