Do I have a right to be angry and blow up at my dad?
My dad and I got into a fight and I blow up but it was bound to happen because I believe he's a bully. So what happened was he was going on about how I do nothing and mooch of if him not helping out with bills, the house and whatnot and how I'm 18 although I'm actually 19 years old still living at home. I blew up because it's all untrue. I go to college full time- I'm taking 13hrs and i've had jobs except since the past month because like I said I'm a full time student (which he says driving me to is a waste of time- Mind you he only does that) so I really have no time now until next semester when I plan on going to school part time so I can work again. I've paid bills for the house, even bills that weren't my responsibility like half his car payment and putting gas in BOTH cars, I've also helped pay the electric bill, and put food in the fridge/table. I've taken my siblings out for fun during the weekend so they'd have something fun to do-he's never taken us out except once to a park when I was about 8 years old I have also given him money plenty of times and he's never payed me back. He kept on saying how I'm lazy and provide nothing and calling me a b**** so I blew up. he was just so ungrateful for everything I have done and made me feel like a loser. he said he could do all those things like taking money I worked for because he's raised me, I have little memory of him growing up because he was gone a lot so my mom did more for my siblings and I, so I have no qualms about giving her anything. Was I right to blow up?