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Should my boyfriend take money from me,when he has lots of it

my boyfriend let me browwer 100.00 for used tires because mine are real bad and he has lots of money ,but he has no problem taking money from me.I have trouble paying bills but yet he lives it up high.am I wrong to think he should say don't worry about it.I dont think he should pay for everything but we live together i would think he would try to make my life a little easier.

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Kick him to the curb now. He will never get any better; only worse. He's self-centered and doesn't really care about anyone other than himself. You deserve better than that. If a casual acquaintance desperately needed tires and couldn't afford them and I had the money I would give it to them gladly and never expect it back. His inability to do this for you is only one symptom of an underlying selfishness that he will never overcome.

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"Applauses and a billion helpfulls!" from me! lol
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just what i thought too!
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No you should kick his ass

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You live together, yet he lets you scrap by? How long have you lived together? If it is for an extended time, you might want to rethink whether or not this guy's heart is generous enough to even celebrate Christmas...

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If I didn't know better, I'd think she was living with my ex.
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LOL! Loser, huh?
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BIG time.
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Shoot! I've had one or two of those...
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no he should not do that he is being a jerk

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You're being used.
He gets to sleep with you AND is taking your money?
Tell me: what are YOU getting out of this relationship? (Can't be much....)

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Women enjoy sex, too.
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I never knew that !!
Duh.
I hope the OP is getting more than a piece of d!ck from that ... jerk.
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there is more to a relationship then sex, time for me to move on .I'm not getting nothing out of this.
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I see your point. I mean, technically you should be paying your own way and paying back loans he gives you, BUT if you're living together, you'd think he'd want to help out for the greater good of the household as a whole. If you're planning to build a life together, he should be willing to make sure you have what you need. You should do that for him too. But maybe in other ways, if your cash flow is low.

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Yes, kick his ass.he might be loving you,but he isnt caring about you

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OH NO HE DIDN'T! I have a friend going through the same darn thing! It sucks man! I tell you right now, that is not how its supposed to work! If he can take but not give, what's that gonna result in a marriage or a further relationship? Good luck. "peace"

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$100 for tires is very reasonable. He's being stingy. Is your boyfriend Scrooge?

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