How many couples in longterm marriages finally divorce over money issues?
To say over money issues alone would be to unfair, over the past 25 + years there have been so many more lies about money, difference about how to deal with bills, I think they should be paid and paid off as soon as possible, he thinks "bills no big deal I'll pay the least I can just enough to keep them off my back" and he really does not care if they are off our backs or not. He has had loans from his mom that he has never paid back. He has had a friend of ours who is a D. D. S. do work for us and offer to let us pay him (a little at a time) that was over 18 years ago we now live in a different state and the guy has never seen one dime from us. I have been a stay at home mom with no income of my own. My husband has "taken care of all the bills" he has known what we had and did not have in the bank most of our married live. It was not until the last two years I knew he was not telling me truth.