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How can I stop wanting a boyfriend? What could be my problem?

I'm in the ninth. my plan this year was to try to get to know a guy I like. when I was In the 7th I got rejected by him but my intuition over the summer told me to find a way to get to know him as a friend. now I think my intuition is telling me to wait because I think this one girl likes him. but my big this is that I just want to stop thinking about wanting a boyfriend. I mean down here where i Iive it seems like there are specific people that are meant for specific people and I honestly think I would be a good match with this one guy but I think I should just calm down on wanting him. Why do I crave male attention? I never had a boyfriend before but I am not ugly I have improved on looks but wat can I do to just settle down and not worry about wanting one so bad? why can't I probably not get one?

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Any girl does not need a man to make her successful, happy, and confident. You have to power to do that yourself. Surround yourself with people you love as friends....personally, the single life is a blast.

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you'll never stop wanting one, it's only natural to be attracted to someone of the opposite sex. the only way to get over that one in particular is to find someone else that you like even more.

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Just think how now that he's older his intentions will be... different. And how it would affect you if you followed through with what he wanted and how it would affect your life if what happened after that was something you don't want. If you need me to spell it out, tell me.

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is he boyfriend material? does he talk about having a relationship with you? and you dont have to have a boyfriend. you can just get a really close guy friend. but u dont wanna keep like the same guy because in the end it might not work out like you planned.

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