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How come I'm always friends with guys instead of girls?

I find its easier to talk to guys sometimes, and I get nervous talking around girls....I don't get it, I don't know anyone else like that..

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Because a lot of chicks are mean and judgmental to other chicks, whereas guys are almost always gonna be nice because they have high hopes of one day gettin in your pants

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recently all the guys I talk to are being jerks though..
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clemwillhelpu
lol, its true. never gonna happen though
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dustee
be nice Faf .... be nice star
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Lmao, so true.
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Nah, it works the same way for some guys. If we're talking REAL freinds, I don't feel comfortable opening up to other guys unless it's a father figure. Some girls I can talk to all day long!
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thats not always the case,im nice and friendly to almost everyone especially up here. some i never met in person and we are really good friends
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clemwillhelpu
captan, ur to nice to try that. :)
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Obviously my statement isn't about the entire population of the world.....I'm saying generally speaking the reason that chicks don't get along with chicks is because they are usually on the verge of taking their claws out 8) I've seen women just meet each other and INSTANTLY for whatever reason hate each other.....guys on the other hand are usually laid back and need a real reason to dislike someone
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clemwillhelpu
i totally agree with NAFTA, cause its true
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Thanks Clem 8)
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That is a perfect answer, it's so true, it made me laugh and this is coming from a girl who always hung out with the guys in HS.
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Because guys are less drama in high school

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It's less drama trust me(: it's fine!

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True that! Yes, I am less dramatic.(:
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Haha(;
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clemwillhelpu

guys are a lot more understanding, and easier to get along with. trust me, i know. while its nice to have friends that are girls to do girly things, its nice to have friends who couldnt give a crap about drama, and arent involved in drama.

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i hope im one of the ones your talking about
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yes, lol. and my friend alex.
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cause a lot of girls i know are judgemental so its easier to just chill with guys.

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Not really from my experience, but why do I get nervous around girl but not guys?
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Bec you don't wanna merry with giral
You will merry with boy not girl

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What's wrong with girls being with girls..?
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that would be gay if Jane55555 was married to a boy because she could secretly be one:P
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so its best you merry a girl.
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Because girls are like the "competition" and they are more scrutinizes! Kinda like girls are more gonna comment on what you are wearing than guys.

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You're like a lady's man but you're a man's lady! It's not bad though

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I am the same way, girls make me nervouse because if you do something odd they will tak behind your back and not be straight up with you. I feel like I have to almost be on my best behavior until you find that one group of girls that arnt like the rest... Gluck

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Thanks! All the girls I know are pretty nice though
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Well, not sure really. But I don't see anything wrong with that. My best friend is a girl

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because girls try to understand guys more and guys try to understand girls more, which increases cooperation and tolerance. that is why guys get a long with girls, plus most guys are honey badgers, so they arent judging, but girls judging guys make us try our best.

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Because guys r easy to talk to.

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maybe your secretly a boy and your parents wanted you to be a girl:o

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Not from what I can tell..
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try pulling your hair off to find out!
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Guys can be alot more funner and its easier to keep a good relationship cause you ain't going to merry the girl right;)

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I am too. It's because they're funnier,don't judge you,and don't start senseless drama.

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Hi! I am Princess Arabella and I have more guy friends then girl friends. Now you know someone else just like you. Many girls can be catty and like drama. I can't stand that. I have seen many if them talk about other girls behind their backs, and I know if they are doing that to those girls they are doing the same thing to me, Who needs friends like that.

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It's good 4 u !!!

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Im the complete opposite. i mean like i will be shy around girls i dont know becuase they judge alot. but usually they would come up ti me first and be my friend. but when im around guys im suuuuuper shy.but thats either because hes cute or i like him.sometimes im just nervous around guys because they judge to and are usually mean if your the qiet girl theyll either not talk to me or call me a stalker because im qiet.even tho they dont know me.in my whole life ive only met two guys that were actually nice.and im not a mean person. and im about average.im not ugly but im not sexy either.but yeaaa enough about me.maybe you click with guys more because you do more boyish type things and your not one of those mean snobby girls with cliques.Xp

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What an odd question. Okay... let's see here. Well you choose who you want to be friends with, and who you hang out with... Right?? So seems its because YOU CHOOSE to be friends with guys... rather than girls. Or maybe you crave guys attention and might be easy. (:

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ive always been friends with more guys and theyre always my best friends. trust me its not weird. girls are drama ...

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It's opposite with me ,there are two types of girls mean ones and sweet ones .guess with one i am friends with :)

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i'm like that too i'm a girl and dont have friends that are girls all the girls at my school are rude and snotty so i hang out with guys so yeah i'm like that

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cause it takes away the drama when ur with girls thats all there is drama drama drama

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that's just like me...;) your not alone.. maybe we should be gal pals..;]

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it goes like this:
Since you are a girl, the other girls see you as competition.
The boys see you as a freind and maybe compete with each other for your friendship.

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bc girls r Beotches! guys r chill and fun, not jeleous and competitive w/u

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I always and still do have more guy friends than girl friends. I just like more things that guys like more so than most girls do. For me, I like, sports, competition, challenges and winning. However, I still like cooking, making babies and getting flowers. I think that's why the guys are attracted to me in most cases.

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Guys seem to trust being around you and that's ok. With finding your making more friends then lovers it seems it would be a good time to be more assertive in your standing. If your not things wont change.

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im like that to . its just less drama and the girls at my high school are always judging people

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IM LIKE THAT!!!! well..at my last school i was. I just find that guys are more layed back and dont care whats going on. Plus all the girls at my last school were really preppy and annoying. :) and i used to be a huge tom boy so guys and i just flowed

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i am the same way.. i have more guy friends than girls.. i think it is easier to talk with guys than girls.. guys seem to get things better than girls.

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Because, some girls think they can be more comfortable around guys than they are girls. some girls have guy friends that are like brothers to them.. guys also don't start as much drama.

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I find I have more male friends than female I think it is just much easier with men unless there is a sexual attraction men are straight forward no backstabbing no catyness

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totally agree!
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I am a girl exactly like you too. I can never seem to make any true friends who are girls. They are always either, 1) too nice to me, mainly because of the fact they feel bad for me and they think they are so beautiful, 2) mean aka backstabbing, 3) jealous but no one can ever tell.

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becose of testoterone in your blood

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im the same way i have alot of guy friends i just find it easier to talk to :) i find alot of things in common with them. To me they seem more comfortable to talk with cause they wont judge you or anything,, and they can actually see the real you.. its not bad.. i like being friends with guys!

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Girls are drama mama. End of story haha. Im friends with more guys than girls so its all good.

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