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Friend problems.. What should I do? Read below please(:

Well, my best friend always says to my other friends that I start all the drama and fights between us. She always gets mad over the smallest things. Should I tell her off? Or just ignore it? My older brother doesn't like her still and doesn't want me to hang out with her. We are on the same basketball team and she keeps telling everyone that I start fights. Should I ignore her? Thanks in advanced (:

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Let her know how you feel and that you don't like what she is doing. Is she an best friend you have known forever, or is she just someone you met? If she has been with you forever than just tell her the truth and she should understand. But if she doesn't understand than she isn't worth it. I hope this helps.
-Calicokat

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You're welcome!
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Just pull her aside and tell how you feel

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Tell her the truth.. If it hurts the friendship, accept it.

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People that talk bad about you to others are not your friends

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Thank you! She always gets mad when I don't tell her things, I'm just afraid she will turn it around and say it differently to someone else.
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I was blessed with a few great friends. We treat each other like family. That's how your friends should treat you.
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She's trying to play the innocent one. That way when she starts fights with you she can blame you. She's crazy,find another friend,move on.

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Thank you! I will hopefully do it!
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You're welcome. Remember anyone that that is mean to you shouldn't be your friend.
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Okay I will definitely remember that. Thanks(:
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People that talks behind your back aren't your friends...
Listen to your brother :)

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Thank you! I should've listen to my brother in the first place.
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Yep
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All these answers seem pretty good. Just talk to her about it. One bit of advice though... Don't confront her about it in front of other people. I find that people are much less guarded and more open when you talk to them one on one. ...and, you're brother might be right...

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Okay thank you!
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