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Is he trying to make me jelous?

I'm 15 and I have this guy friend that I know likes me and I like him too but haven't told him, and he was talking to me and walking next to another girl and he look at me and put his arm around her I don't know if he's trying to make me jelous or to just see my reaction but I know was kind of mad and when I said goodbye to him he just said bye and then looked away, do you think he likes this girl or trying to make me jelous and watch my reaction?

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Honestly hunny, you need to tell him. You're going to go through your teenage years with these little fantasies of " what if" and a million other questions. If you don't get him, someone else will. On the other hand if he is the kind to play games, forget him you are young and you do not know what true love is. Find the guy that is reading books, is smart, keeps to himself and doesn't play games goofing around with his friends because those are the kind of guys that will leave you with a head full of mind games and a broken heart. I'm not trying to put you down.. Just either catch the fish or let it go. The best guys are always the ones that people don't really notice, they are also more passionate and care about how a person acts rather than looks. Jelous is also spelt like jeAlous with an a. :)

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Thank you for the advice and I can't spell lol I forgot I'm smart and all but I'm just not paying attention to my spelling that much
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Anytime if you need anymore advice you can ask me :)
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He's trying to make you jelly and test your reaction. He's experimenting cuz he wants you and he wants a reaction from you. If you get mad, that's great for him cuz that means you want him. If you don't, then that means you don't care. That's why he did that. Unless he thinks the girl is hot or he hangs out with her a lot, he has a crush on you.

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Thank you and should I tell him I like him or just ask nicely about his friendship with the other girl!
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Ask nicely.
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Your in a better position to judge that, and so if you don't know, all you'll get is a guess. If you didn't already know misleading information is more dangerous than none. So unless you know a person who has a stronger bond with him than you should just do what you think is best, or maybe you just need to talk it out to get your thoughts straight.

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Should I tell him I like him or would that ruin the fact that he just wants to find out himself? Lol do you know what I mean? And should I ask him about his friendship with the other girl nicely and sincere?
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um... that is a hard question to answer, in turth you can't know, people are complex. Even people who study the mind for a living can't answer such questions. They could only tell what he is most likely to do. It is best to just do what comes naturally in times like this.
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Maybe. Maybe he's tired of waiting for you.

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I have tried asking him to hang out but I get to chicken and we always talk but I never get the feeling that I have the strength to ask him out!!! Any advice on how to feel calm around him and just straight out ask him something about hanging out?
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Just tell him you like him. Get it over with. Maybe he'll kiss you and the nerves will calm down. Granted you guys are of age
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Thank you! I will tuffin up and get it over with!
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Boys get bored quickly. I would. Otherwise you may miss the chance. :)
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