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I become really close to this one guy. We started liking each other but decided that we should just be friends and he said no best friends:)

I said okay:) then suddenly we started drifting apart i asked him whats wrong and he said nothing i am texting you:) i wasnt really concerned till he really wasnt acting himself so i told him that he can tell me anything and that i will always be here for him. he said thank you i really appreciate it and that he would do the same for me in a heart beat. then we stopped texting and he wont answer me. I am not constantly replying just once a couple days to see if he is alright. i dont know what to do, i need him in my life and to be my best friend and help me.

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Why are you staying friends? The way you describe it your closer than most friendships.Seems like he might be interested in something more, but since that wasnt going to happen he decided to move on. Maybe he thought the only way to do that was erase you from his life.

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Talk to him about how you feel!

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you dont think it will be awkward and i honestly dont know what too say.
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Thats how me and my ex wounded up. :( i continue to tell him im here for him, when he texts me out of the blue..but he doesnt have anything to say and stops texting me again for a month or so..

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yeah exactly like when his bored or needs someone to make him feel wanted he comes to me, his playing me i think. I love him, i am just confused and hurt.
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Yeah exactly..I love my ex too. And my ex will text me and be like i miss you alot...and then we will talk for like 30 minutes and then he never texts me back..it makes me sad.
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yeah and i want to look strong and just move on but its too hard. all this mixed signals i am stuck!
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I knowww me tooo...ugh boys think girls are confusing..no guys are..lol
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i dont know what to say to him. yesterday i passed him in the halls and he come close to me and just smiled and i wanted to just run up and give him a hug like the old days but i just shook my head and walked the opposite direction.
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Dude you should just call him out on it at school. Talk to him seriously in person. Cuz what ive learned texting doesnt do sh*t..
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yeah i know i should but i am afriad
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You probably will feel sooo much better after you really talk to him..ik i would
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i cant look at him i will just pause and run haha it sounds embarassing but i cant get over wht we used to have till what we have now
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No i understand. Lol maybe u can get some friends to be with you and talk to him
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yeah thanks good idea:)
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Take the hint and move on. Obviously he's not what you need in a friend.

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move on how? its not that easy
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Kick him in the junk. That will make it easy.
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oh and that solves all of my problems thanks
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It would force you to move on.
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you mean hum to hate me forever yeah...
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