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tkdgirl2000: 6 months ago

How do I ask my boyfriend that I want to spend more time with him?

he's almost always hanging out with his friends and I need advice on how to tell him that without offending him.

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TheForbiddenFollower: 6 months ago

well, i had problem with my bf, what i did was i kept telling him, like, hey, im a girl, you need to spend time with me. he still didnt, so then, i would always be mad at him, and then he would be mad at me for being mad at him, and it was an endless cycle for a while, then it stopped, then restarted. and finally, on my bday (nov 25th), we talked it out, and thought it was best that we didnt talk for 2 days, so, we did that (those 2 days he sent me 3 messages, i only replyed to one), and then, after that, he wanted me again, and since then, its going pretty good :) so, either make him miss you, or just do somehting to grab his attension, or leave him

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LilMamiChika: 6 months ago

tell him that you want to spend time with him...its that simple...it takes two to be in a relationship

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FarmerGirlMaryJo: 6 months ago

Just say, "Baby, play me or trade me"... he should get the hint.

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Lorc: 6 months ago

just be honest and tell him..

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Gummylol: 6 months ago

Simply ask him to spend more time with him if he refuses he's not really a good boyfriend.

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17lynche: 6 months ago

Say "I know you want me. You think you can rock this body? Uh-uh. I don't think so." And he'll be all like "Guuuurrrrllll, YOU can't rock this body." And you'll be all like "Uh-huh I can rock that bod-ay." And he'll be like "Prove it." And BOOM, you spend more time together.

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dvdprincess: 6 months ago | Last edited at 12:31PM on 12/1/2012

Just say, "Hey, I was thinking that we could spend some time together tonight. You know, some me-and-you time. Just us. At a movie or a dinner. How about that?" If he says that he was planning on spending some time with his buddies, ask him if he really thinks your relationship can work when you spend hardly any time with each other. Don't say it with any anger in your voice. Also, don't get too clingy once you finally get to spend time with him. Make sure he reserves some time every week with you.

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Crawf: 6 months ago via iPhone

Why do you have to ask? Just do it.

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lanelove: 6 months ago via iPhone | Last edited at 3:32PM on 12/1/2012

Spend time w/ someone else :-) I bet you'll have his attention then....

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harold808: 6 months ago | Last edited at 7:34PM on 12/1/2012

When I tell my girlfriend how much I enjoy her company and that I miss her and love chilling with her, she automatically invites me over for the next time she has available.

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