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Intelligence, honesty, sense of humor, great taste in music (hugely important!), like-mindedness... and....
Well, I just look for "MrBangedUp"... easy to find at the moment, he's right here on my couch! In my computer chair, too 'cause we're taking turns answering Q's on Ask! :)

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Beauty, brains, fashion, the good stuff. That is what I like in a women.

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sense of humor. i can't have someone who's gonna take everything i say seriously or we won't be together long...

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I think loyalty and trust are the two main things, looks are important to but not super important, if my girlfriend hangs out with a bunch of dudes I usually get a bit jealous, but don't let jealousy cloud your thoughts. Anyways I think a sense of humors is very important too!

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That he can handle a future. I've always dreamed of being in love with a perfect relationship and then having a perfect family. I want my guy to be able to handle my want for children, a big house, and my obsess with Christmas time. If he can't handle that, he ain't a keeper.

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Honor, understanding, loyal, great hair, and some interest in improving and trying new things, also a healthy girl.

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I like people who are interesting and funny :)

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Someone I can talk to and have interesting conversations with. A lot of frustrated older couples say "We never talk anymore" because they've already exhausted everything they have to talk about. My wife and I just have interesting conversations and enjoy hanging out together. That's something that shouldn't be underestimated. One of the things that first captivated me about her is that she could carry on an intelligent conversation about the Red Sox, past and present. That, and she's got a backside that almost moves me to tears.

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kindness and honest

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Needs:
mature
intelligent
respectful
Understanding
has a job (it shows hes responsible and dedicated)
Sense of humor
kind
taller then me

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He needs to be taller than you? Your a bitch hah.
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Honesty, sense of humor, and responsible..
The rest is bonus.

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a woman who doesn't change her phone number when i get it or move when i find out where she lives

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Both excellent qualities.
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really they are the only ones i absolutely need, anything else is just a bonus or something i can get over
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You've got to love a woman who, when she catches you going through her garbage, leaves the bags untied the following week to make it easier for you. Er...uh...or so it would seem...hypothetically, that is. Yeah, hypothetically.
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and here i've been feeling so misunderstood my whole life when all i needed was a profile on ask.com
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In a GUY--listens to me, doesn't want me just because of my body, looks good, and, basically understands me.

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I always look for a sense of humor first. you don't want someone who can't joke around with you or is serious ALL the time. Yeah you want someone to also be commited and not TOO humorous all the time, you need to be able to take them seriously at times. I also look for intelligence, are they down to earth, and most important are they RESPECTFUL, they can be the funniest guy on the planet, most down to earth, smartest... but if he's not respectful to you or to others what's the point. oh and also loyalty and trustworthy. They get bonus points is they're 6 ft., and athletic.

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A pulse.

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Personality,humor,open minded,kind hearted,athletic,funny,healthy and a natural attraction towards them.

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Humour is a MUST!!and respect t00!!!

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Personality....

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personality is the best thing that a person should respect,and honestly is so important 2.

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All I care about is if she's smart and if she respects others.

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We must be on the same wavelength so that our sense of wit, worldview, and humor match. She must be artistic, intelligent, caring, respectful, loyal, positive, and stable and easygoing. Liking the same movies, music, and food are a bonus. Eating healthy food and being active is a plus. Also open mindedness and ability to adapt are a plus.

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well first off they need to like me haha

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To answer that question, imagine two musical instruments, perhaps a piano and a guitar. If they are correctly tuned, either one can produce beautiful solo music. Yet, what happens if these instruments are played together? Now they must be in tune with each other. It is similar with you and a prospective mate. Each of you may have worked hard to “tune” your personality traits as individuals
It is important that both of you have common beliefs and principles. The apostle Paul wrote: “Do not become unevenly yoked with unbelievers.”
To be attuned to each other, you and your prospective mate should have similar goals. What are your goals?

Instead of asking, “Do we agree on everything?” some better questions might be: “What happens when we disagree? Can we discuss matters calmly, according each other respect and dignity? Or do discussions often deteriorate into heated arguments?” (Ephesians 4:29, 31) If you want to get married, be wary of anyone who is proud and opinionated, never willing to compromise, or who constantly demands and schemes to have his or her own way.
http://www.jw.org/en/publications/books/?contentLanguageFilter=en&sortBy=2

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Honesty first and foremost. A sence of humor is very important. For me confidence is very sexy. And on a shallow note a nice smile!!

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i only look for honesty in every action . rest of the things are secondary.

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Honesty,Funny,helpful, caring everythng good nothing bad..

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i look for everything in a girl but most important is if they love me or not and if they truly do love me

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