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Why is letting go of someone harder than it sounds?

I just got dumped and Im trying to let go of them but its hard

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I'm in the same boat as you, as of two weeks ago. : [ It's so hard because you loved that person with all your might, and he broke your heart. You lived for him,and now it seems there is no living. At times you feel you want to die. :'{ Time is what you need, rara, and lots of it.

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That's really tuff, I was kind of in the same situation but I decided to forgive...time heals I wish u the best of luck:)
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Well, thank you very much! It's not a matter of forgiving, here. I don't think luck will be with me, :( but thank you. :)
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You'll be fine...never loose faith in god:)
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I will be fine......in a long time from now. :'( Thank you.
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Maybe cause you got used to the person, n it's really easy to say than do

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It is hard. Having your heart broken feels like you want to go die in a hole, or just do the most terrible things.
I really don't know.. All of that excitement that you had once is now gone.
That's one of the hard things- letting all of that happiness go.

Trust me, Cry as often as you can at home, and let it out. I stabbed my paper with a pen, because i was so mad. I just tore it up, and threw it away. Just like my heart. Lol.
But you'll get over him. Its better when you can still stay friends. Him and I are friends.. it's all good.

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Because you've probably spent a lot lot lots of time with that person, and you can't really let go of all those memories you've held so dearly to your heart. :)
Some deep stuff.

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It's easy to get attached :-) Don't worry, it'll all be all right.
Cool eye btw!!

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rarabrown
thanks
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Is that your eyes?!
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rarabrown
No. I wish. I have multicolored eyes. Mine almost look like that though, It just has a brown dot in the corner
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Ooh pretty! :)
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thanks
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Yep
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Just because they stopped Loving You does not mean that You will ever stop Loving them.... It is Very hard I feel your pain !

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That means you care about them or have changed your life to be with them. You need to be with friends and family more and do things that are about you. Not the relationship. It will still be difficult but you will have some of your thoughts and time occupied.

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If you didn't care for them you wouldn't have been in the relationship. (or at least people shouldn't be in one of they don't care.) And because you care it is going to hurt. Now you have to go thru the pain. I know it hurts (Boy! Do I know it hurts!) you will just have to go thru it (as almost every adult has) and eventually you will become stronger and smarter for it. You can't see it right now,but I promise you will later.

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I've always thought it's a shame that it takes two people in love to make a relationship work, but only one out of love to break it apart. It happened to me as well and it stinks. Hang in there, grieve, and take care of yourself. It does get better.

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man when u find out that answer let me know bc I've been wondering the same

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